nordicguylondon

About Me:

I’m an easy-going guy who enjoys a good afternoon or evening out be it a meal or drinks (not too much though as I don’t want to fall asleep on you), conversation, just being together or all the above. I am not a particularly serious person, I enjoy a good punchline and would never [intentionally] bore you with mundane discussions, but would ultimately have to defer to you as to whether I have a GSOH.

Technical details: I'm 6'2" tall with a full head of dark blonde hair a bit of dignified grey, cut short. Always clean shaven, but may miss a day here or there. Some tattoos, but nothing foolish, hair-raising or visible with a shirt. Build-wise, I have broad shoulders, not fat, but not a skinny either. When time allows during the week I exercise to keep fit, but I am no means a full-time gym rat. There is muscle protected by a bit of insulation, but I do maintain a healthy diet.

Dress-sense: weekdays it is usually typical male office attire comprising dark suit, smart shirt, leather shoes, sans tie. Evenings out is typically a blazer/sports coat (is there a difference?), another smart shirt (maybe the same one I wore to the office? Better give it a sniff first!), nice trousers, less formal footwear, but I never wear trainers except when training. Same goes for t-shirts. In general, I dress my age.

On a more personal note, I am not a Christian Grey type kitted out and wanting to fasten you up (sounds like a lot of work and what the heck is in it for me? I’d be constantly asking if you were okay! Thanks E.L. James for making this all the more complex than it should be…), but with the right partner I can be found on the adventurous side of the spectrum. I’m not looking fulfil any extreme fantasies outside of my marriage, but at the same time I am not one to lie back and think of England. I’m a great kisser. I’m a Western guy who grew up in the era of 2nd-wave feminism and am thus accustomed to a relatively level playing field in relationships so I can be very generous, thoughtful and caring, but also masculine.

Although women on this site hate them, VKs are okay with me as they let me know you’re out there and if I get one from you I’ll check out your profile and may drop you a line.

Ideal Partner:

Hello there, and thank you for checking me out! I'm looking to meet someone for companionship and fun in either the London area or not too far away. Someone who like to meet up on a regular basis for drinks, meals, conversation or simply just to be together. I am looking for a partner in crime (just one, honestly!), preferably also married and/or who is comfortable being with someone married. (Granted this should be obvious to your typical IE user, but I have seen the occasional "don't bother messaging if you are married!" Too cheap to use a singles dating website, are we????)

Discretion and secrecy will be of the highest priority for both of us. When we're apart we can keep in touch via discreet email or messages and the occasional cheeky phone call, when it is safe and risk-free to do so. When we're together I can assure you that you will have my undivided attention!

I'm London based but travel regularly for work often staying away for a few days, usually a couple times a month, thus making it easy for me to be on my own. I am therefore often free during weekday evenings, and overnight on occasion. Daytime meet-ups are also possible as I have a very flexible work schedule. Unfortunately, my carriage turns into a pumpkin by Friday evening and thus am not available for Friday nights out, weekends away, trips to the continent, etc...

Slight rant: my marriage is stable and my family generally happy (please no psychoanalysis just yet…), but the intimacy has long since vanished and I’m not prepared to retire to the rocking chair with a blanket, TV remote and a bowl of Werther’s Originals just yet. As such, I am seeking regular actual human contact with someone in the same situation. I am not interested in protracted messaging and phone calls just to fill the emotional gaps in someone else’s marriage which may have different issues than my own; I have needs too and this will work out better if we both in it for the same reasons. Lastly, I am not looking to break up my family or anyone else’s either. I will show full respect for your family, marriage and private life, and expect the same in return. If this suits you then let’s chat…

Other Interests:

Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Ice / Snow Sports, Computers / Internet, Food and Wine, Music - Hip Hop

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