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Life is a beach - 19 Jul, 2025 - 09:54PM

I agree with many of your comments. Why would you be looking for an IE if you are having good sex with your other half?
If you try something new all of a sudden, your partner will be suspicious. Be careful!
If you have a good sex life at home, why look elsewhere?

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GolfBeachBeer - 19 Jul, 2025 - 07:36PM

I know a lot of the comments on this one are about "if you can do it with your husband why are you on here".

I'm gonna look at this one from my personal point of view which is that I'm not here for just bedroom fun. Personally looking for an actual connection.

My wife will try a position if I ask but still feels as if its just going through the motions every time and always one sided from me. I personally am looking for an actual relationship on the side not just a roll in the hay.

Having explained where I sit, I cant see any issue trying with your husband, at least you know if its something that you will enjoy as there as some positions out there that sound great but my god you need to be an acrobat to get right and feel horrible!

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essemem - 19 Jul, 2025 - 04:53PM

You’re already having an affair, I don’t think it matters at this point who you’re practicing with!! 😄

1796845 - 19 Jul, 2025 - 09:36AM

A dry run, or maybe not.

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Enigma.. - 19 Jul, 2025 - 09:33AM

@boav91

My thoughts exactly…
Why is she just wasting this man’s time when she can’t meet up “for now” and still has an active “apparently” sex life with her husband.
Way to many time wasters on this site 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.

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boav91 - 19 Jul, 2025 - 09:09AM

Everyone comes to this for different reasons and I am ott here to judge but if there is enough spark to want to try different sexual positions with your husband is there not enough there to not need an ie. In my situation at least if my wife had wanted to do that I would not have looked wider. I know and have read people on here suggesting that that would be as much me as her, which may or may not be true, but she has never showed much interest in exploring that side and as we got older she was just happy to cuddle then go to sleep. My with my ie, totally different. We get to explore all that, but I will be honest, and my ie knows this, if i could have got that in my marriage I would not be on ie.

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1660660 - 08 Jun, 2024 - 03:22PM

Depends on communication in advance. Setting the scene for some more adventure in the bedroom might allay some suspicion. Most stuff has already been discussed on mumsnet- easy to say you read it on there or something 🤣. But at the end of the chat, your partner might still not want to do it….

Paula99 - 08 Jun, 2024 - 01:49PM

I think there is a big difference between clever wit and use of word phrases that have a real meaning than ‘carry on jargon’ like oooo er Mrs..nice melons you got there..

😂

EmnEm123 - 07 Jun, 2024 - 01:28PM

Bookreader

Dreich. What's your point?

1665215 - 05 Jun, 2024 - 05:14PM

I love the term 'saucy' Em....I think for those in long term, maybe moribund, relationships the use of Carry On language can sometimes make us feel youthful again (albeit slightly un-PC)

whats the Scottish word....dreich?...

xxx

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