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pkash78 - 26 May, 2020 - 10:11PM

Well said @MatureWorcsBBW.. couldn’t have said it any better.. couldn’t agree more with what you’ve said

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1041875 - 26 May, 2020 - 08:08PM

I was completely faithful to my ie he wanted for nothing we did everything tried everything outdoor sex in door sex every where sex I thought and he told me he would never cheat it was us two And only us two We had great time I thought and did many things together besides sex then he cheated on me after asking me to be faithful to him If I ever wanted to have someone else then He said speak to him first ..and he would do the same but no he wanted his cake and eat it ..I believe he’s still on here no doubting telling the new woman the same thing .kind of lost my trust a bit on here now ..

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Charlie10027 - 26 May, 2020 - 05:13PM

If you want the best out of the relationship, stay with one partner. The sex gets better as you get to know one and another more.

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1366333 - 25 May, 2020 - 07:04PM

I have been completely monogamous and never cheated on him. I don’t have any sexual relationship with my spouse. Whether that will change in the future...who knows, it’s up to him.

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Golly.1k - 25 May, 2020 - 03:05PM

Openness with an IE is what counts to know what you each want, then you have no reason not to keep everything truthful.
I would keep to one IE (when it happens) and be honest
Same as a lot of peeps here, spose sex has all but disappeared

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fiveten3 - 25 May, 2020 - 12:28AM

When I first signed up to the site I wanted to keep relationships fun and light, to avoid true love, so I openly aimed at finding FWBs. At one point I had three IEs, and was open about it with them, but it did not work well. Only one of the three had someone besides me, there was tension and I was causing pain. I had deceived no one (except my wife) but that was not enough ...

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1386823 - 24 May, 2020 - 04:26PM

I still have occasional sex with my partner.
Myself and my IE are very open about desires and others that we have had and what we have done...for her it is a turn on.
I get that that is not the case for everyone.
She wants to watch me with a third but not sure where things are heading....

MatureWorcsBBW - 24 May, 2020 - 05:06AM

There is sometimes a tendency to tell people what you think they want to hear.
I would imagine that it happens here just as much as elsewhere.

I'm not going to pretend to be monogamous with anyone who is still living with their current partner, whether they have sex with them or not. And that's because they're still committed to them, just without the sex, in many cases, it appears.

I'm certainly not prepared to offer monogamy to anyone who is clearly committed in any way to their current lifelong partner. And who has seemingly proven that monogamy hasn't worked for them. It seems foolish, for me.

Nor do I feel compelled to change how I feel by lying about being monogamous or by being monogamous.

And I don't see why safe sex cannot be practised in the same way as it is with just the one partner.

I certainly won't presume to tell anyone else how they should behave nor would I expect anyone to tell me how to behave either.
Thankfully we're all very different, we'll all find someone who resp

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AA1RON - 23 May, 2020 - 11:57PM

Hi everyone,

Well I must say I've thought about this and I'm not that advanced or in the IE elite club. Definitely not to bedhop and get extra notches.
For me I keep well away from the Mrs and I've never ever cheated on my IE.

One nicely matched IE who was physically appealing, beautiful, and we really hit it off and connected well was worth a hundred IEs. I"d walk around smiling..

Hygiene and increased risk in get caught or slipping up is a chance some IEs are willing to take.. Not me I'm a loyal and honest IE.. One at a time..

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gemini2310 - 23 May, 2020 - 11:16PM

I only have the time or inclination for one IE and that's very hard to work around with my job but where there's a will there's away