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Should I keep my options open?

I am currently speaking to 2 people I met via IE, they have both asked me to be exclusive. Should I keep in touch with both of them or decide on just one?

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Paula99 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 05:46PM

Honesty is not the best policy….🤔


London70xxx - 11 Apr, 2024 - 05:04PM

I’d say be honest. If you don’t want to be exclusive fine but say so. If that means they choose not to see you then it is what it is.

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Jasmine19 - 09 Apr, 2024 - 09:13AM

Depends if you're hoping they're being exclusive with you or ok with them being in touch with multiples too. If you're keeping your options open let them know you're chatting to another so you're all on the same page


SunnyDaze743 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 11:22PM

You don’t need to follow someone else’s rules.

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CaptureMe - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:48AM

Be yourself...after all being on her is secretive enough ! So surely being more secretive won't be too much would it ?
Go with whst you feel is right ... who knows what other person/s want ....


GemStone69 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 01:03AM

I’d keep my options open and see what develops, but I also find it a bit rich being asked to be exclusive on a forum for married people wanting affairs!

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Prof Sarah Beauchamp - 05 Apr, 2024 - 12:34PM

Am I being slightly cynical about this post, they both just happened to ask at the same time to be exclusive? Think I will take this with a pinch of salt.

For the OP unless you have met either of this people then keep options open.

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1659756 - 04 Apr, 2024 - 05:19PM

Everyone is different. Go with your own moral compass and try not to hurt anyone.

Want to lie? lie... but do not be misled by some of the comments below about potential IEs being "unreasonable" in requirements... it is an immature way to think.

You are essentially lying because if they find out they will finish things faster with you than a virgin visiting a prostitute. Get comfortable with that and move on dont become toxic or entitled about your rationale.

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Ssrah 2.1 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 12:57AM

What do you want to do? Just do that.

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1651227 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 11:54PM

Discuss it with them openly - this is what I do. IMHO, what they are asking for is unreasonable.

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