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EmnEm123 - 06 May, 2025 - 08:16PM

SirraNek

By jove old chap, you're quite correct! 😜

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SirrahNek - 06 May, 2025 - 09:51AM

I love the threads here - but I admit that I have a problem with this one. I can’t understand why I’d change my lifestyle to have an affair. I mean, it’d be a bit bloody obvious - where’s the discretion?

There’s another point too - if I let myself go to the extent that I’d have to change my entire lifestyle to be attractive to women then you’d have to pity my poor wife. What has she done to deserve some slovenly arse who thinks that sex should be on tap regardless of whether or not any effort has been made?

So, I think, don’t change your lifestyle. Just make an effort in all that you say and do. Make an effort with your appearance, be kind, considerate, attentive and thoughtful. And if you have to change your lifestyle to do that then make a conscious effort each day not to fall back into slobbish habits.

I mean to say, cripes!

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EmnEm123 - 04 May, 2025 - 07:29PM

James with the bluest eyes

Sorry, but what an absolute bore fest.

Could you never be yourself with your partner?

Relationship's break down, fair enough, but be honest.

Don't try the pseudo romantic crap, it's not in the least attractive.

James with the bluest eyes - 02 May, 2025 - 10:47AM

The knowing that I am not alone in seeking somebody with whom I can be myself and they can be their self.
Shared passions and the introduction of new desires and like you different opportunities to meet and share.

1610442 - 28 Apr, 2025 - 01:13PM

@ Rumielias

So not so much a happy ending. God what a downer

Davidnormal - 28 Apr, 2025 - 12:24PM

Not being judgemental or jumping to conclusions without knowing the facts. Realising that we are all different and we all have our own reasons for being on this site.

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FeldAii - 28 Apr, 2025 - 10:40AM

They never wanted me.

Enigma.. - 28 Apr, 2025 - 08:30AM

@Funguy77

Golly gumdrops 😉

I got a message through on the site from a male who lives in Manchester.
I couldn’t make head nor tale of what he was he had typed or was trying to say 🤷🏼‍♀️.
It was, I think, some kind of Manchester slang mixed in with a 40 year old male trying to appear “cool”… if you catch my drift lol 😂.
I sent him a message back asking for an English translation 😂🤣.

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Rumielias - 28 Apr, 2025 - 02:21AM

I met a married man on here in 2012. He left his wife soon after we met. Eventually we moved in together and later got married. But he was still seeing other women on the sly the whole time. Once a cheater…! We are still married but what is good for the goose… I think that’s how the saying goes!

Purple dreamer - 25 Apr, 2025 - 06:57AM

Chance would be a fine thing just hope when I meet him he does not want me to run lol

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