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KittySimone - 24 Jan, 2024 - 01:10AM

Find someone that gives you a valid and innocent reason for seeing them. Then you never have to lie.

1632896 - 02 Jan, 2024 - 09:53PM

Awordsmith

Tell that to Hatt Mancock..!!

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Awordsmith - 02 Jan, 2024 - 08:57PM

Best to squeeze in passionate encounters during business hours! Much reduced likelihood of getting caught with your pants down (literally and metaphorically!) 😜

Douglasclansman - 31 Dec, 2023 - 04:44PM

I went to confession

Nadia747 - 31 Dec, 2023 - 01:36PM

The wife rang me and I texted but asking who it was, and she texted back to say that I rang her before, I said sorry but I don't have this number on my phone so how can I call you, next minute she started calling my phone and I answered, the lady sounded very posh with a very rich accent but she put the phone down on me, I think she realised that my English was broken beyond repair as I was mixing with Afrikaans and my own language.

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Enigma.. - 28 Dec, 2023 - 01:08PM

@Dotty Green

I totally agree with you.

I don’t have access to my mobile during working hours “security”.
My partner tends to just message or leave a voicemail which I’ll reply to when I can.
I can away with I’ve been offered an extra shift or there’s a meeting up in Glasgow.
But I always make sure where/when I’m meeting my Ie that we use places and modes of transport that we won’t run into anyone we know.
And there will be a perfectly good explain as to why I’m on said train or in a certain place.

Just like you say…. Keep it simple and uncomplicated 🙂

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1529050 - 28 Dec, 2023 - 11:05AM

I tend to stick close to what I’m doing …

My meets are normally during the working day …

If however I was doing something out of the norm I’d work a story around it ie if I was going to Brighton I’d make up I was near that way as imagine if there was a train or car issue … and you were the the opposite end of the county 🤦🏻‍♀️

Also keep it simple … don’t make an elaborate story ..

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Enigma.. - 28 Dec, 2023 - 10:19AM

Ps…
And that’s just some of his spectacular slip ups.

You’re welcome 😉😂💋.

Enigma.. - 28 Dec, 2023 - 10:05AM

A bit of advice to all of you thinking about or having an affair.
My now ex husband slipped up spectacularly on several occasions…
My advice…
Lock the bathroom door if you are going to trim or shave your pubes 🙄. I just laughed and rolled my eyes. His face was bright red.
Don’t leave new bottles of aftershave, still in their boxes, hidden at the back of a drawer. Less suspicious if left out of the boxes and in plain site.
Don’t buy a second mobile and hide the carrier, receipt and box in the loft. Yes… that’s personally my fav 😂. I only went up into the loft for the Christmas decorations and I couldn’t stop laughing for about 10 minutes. I just thought “And for your next spectacular slip up? How are you going to outdo this one”?.
Don’t buy sexy satin boxers etc and hide them in the glove compartment of the car. I had to borrow my exes car one morning when mine wouldn’t start. I could tell by the look on his face he was hiding something lol.
And that’s just some of his sli

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Doricles - 28 Dec, 2023 - 08:41AM

Linking FluffyClouds and LadyDe’s comments back to the original question … what you wear when going out to meet your IE must tie in with your alibi. That imposes restrictions on some men who, for instance, normally go out dressed in a particular way e.g. a suit and tie. If men dress differently on a work day, suspicions will be aroused, particularly if they over do their male grooming before leaving home! The same ‘rules’ apply to women although women can generally wear something sexy and seductive under their day clothes, providing of course, they can dress in private without “showing out” i.e. by parading around in front of their partner in their best sexy lingerie as they prepare for “another boring business meeting”! Whether male or female, best advice when it comes to the world of IE is to do some “practice runs” before your first meeting so you can deal with any challenges about what you’re wearing and why without looking guilty. Women, more so than men, will pickup on the slightes