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How do you know?

Hi,
I am iffing and umming about taking the plunge and having an affair. I've met someone I really like, and now we want to take it to the next level. How can I be sure this is the right thing for me... I've never done anything like this before.

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1408530 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 09:07AM

Short answer: you will not know unless you try.
My elaborated view: There are many of us (☺️) that never done this before, but perhaps always deep down knew that we want to expand our activities 🤣. Each individual is different, some can click on a first meet, others after few months or never. I think we should all go in our own pace and build the trust between the parties first. That’s my take on this anyway.

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1408335 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 09:04AM

There are few certainties in life but to live without experiences is to starve your soul. Fear of making some mistake only leaves you with "what ifs?" It won't go away and you know that? May be a flop but at least you learn and grow? :-)

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1399985 - 30 Sep, 2020 - 09:02AM

I'm sure many will disagree with me, but personally I would say if you're not sure, then it isn't for you.

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SheWhoDaresWins - 30 Sep, 2020 - 09:00AM

When you know, you know.

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