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Realhousewife20 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 09:33PM

sportster what if you weren’t to know things were fake? This is a genuine question as I have hair extensions and unless I tell people they have no idea, I also fake tan once a week but use a really decent one and again people are very surprised when I tell them it’s not a real tan.

windthruthetrees - 23 Jul, 2021 - 08:44PM

My perspective as a man, yes I am, is that I’d be happy if you just turned up! Everything after that is a bonus. So go for it.

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1442248 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 07:11PM

Contact him and let him decide.
If it were me, would make a joke (these things happen) and move on.... although expect to have Tango ordered!!
Depends how confident you are, things come up... being pinged by the tracing app is a good excuse!

1458849 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 07:01PM

Lemon juice and sugar makes a good exfoliator, lemon juice is also a natural lightener , it will actually work to lighten your tan , and boost your confidence, at least it’s an ice breaker and conversation point , have fun

1346010 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 04:20PM

I think I would go anyway and make a joke of it, I’m sure he will find it most attractive that you can laugh at yourself. It’s a rare quality in women. Warn him though! Good luck you’ll be amazing

Perfect moments - 23 Jul, 2021 - 04:00PM

I would say go for it. Make a joke of it and just be yourself. If he cant see the funny side to it then he is not the right man for you.

1393321 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 03:52PM

By the way, I have a first date dress that's very plain, which I wear because I want him to focus on my eyes and let our connection speak for itself.

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1393321 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 03:49PM

How many men ever notice when a woman's had her hair done? In this heatwave I suspect it'll look entirely natural, it's just a shock to you.

I agree with others...make a joke of it, meet him and have a laugh. It will fade eventually but hopefully not your deeper attraction for each other. Good luck on your date x

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1117169 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 03:42PM

Fake anything puts me off completely. Natural every time please.

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1447655 - 23 Jul, 2021 - 03:25PM

Dont get me wrong, any I.E date I have ever had has been very pleasing on the eye and 'well turned out'. No complaints from me!

It's just the expectations for women are so much more complex. Hair, makeup, wax, tan, expensive complicated underware, understated elegant outerwear. Of course, I suppose the response would be "but I.E woman does all that naturally, that's just who she is" (not if she has a full time job, a home to run and kids, you know, to generally keep alive). But, I suppose a profile is never going to say 'prefers flip flops, sun dress and straw hat'. But then, I like unvonventional men! X

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