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Mika3121 - 12 May, 2024 - 08:17AM

Sorry, I don’t think it does become easier! I’ve been a member for a while and only last week a woman started chatting to me (nothing sordid!), exchanged passwords, SHE then asked to message off site,. I gave her my mobile, she gave me hers and then IMMEDIATELY BLOCKED me with no explanation. The good thing was this was all within a day, so didn't waste too much time and energy!

1665613 - 30 Apr, 2024 - 07:45PM

How easy or hard is it on hear to have affair with someone, I keep updating my profile and messaged lots but don’t get anything back,
Really want something
Can someone read my profile and tell me how o can change it to get someone
Please x

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Fun Hunky Gent - 05 Apr, 2024 - 07:01PM

I hope it becomes easier. I find it difficult to get my messages to stand out and I try all types of different techniques, from one liners to a full detailed personalised hello based on what has been written in their profile to buy no avail!

I did feel like I was clicking with someone but then after sharing pictures I got blocked. Either she didn't like my perfectly formed smile, she knew me or just didn't fancy me which is fine... But it's just an example of the type of radio silence I can expect and experience!

I remain hopefully though with the process!

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1651928 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 10:35AM

I think you learn along the way, to find the person is difficult, to find someone needs time and patience to link the missing part of the lives we have, sometimes not of our choosing but perhaps a little selfish trying to find a little happiness and fun

1643275 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 01:06AM

To state the obvious, the older one becomes, the less interest in your profile and you as a person.

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1651227 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 11:56PM

I've been on here for about a month, and I've learned a *lot*. It does become easier to decide what you're looking for, and that should help you actually get somewhere. After that, well, practise makes perfect :)

Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 03:14PM

It’s nice to see a post from a different perspective and it’s clear even though you are single you are emotionally mature …however I am not sure about himself offloading all his marital drama on you on a regular basis ..I agree that some support is necessary but you have enough of your own to contend with and just being a continual ‘ support network’ would give me the ‘ick’
I have said this before in another post …women don’t want to listen to their affairs moaning about their wives and the general problems at home ..this is about the ‘escape’ and having fun …😉

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1643275 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 12:52PM

Been here for some time, so long in fact that it seems that I am perceived of the cardigan and slippers brigade, plus I have soup spillage marks on my shirts. No, it's more difficult and edgy nowadays with too many incorrect perceptions.

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Maasai77 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 11:24AM

I have had a long affair from this site and meet nice people nothing went wrong for me because I was patient enough until I meet the right person,by the way he is married and is still married I am single and has never stepped out of my boundaries I only listen about his frustration at home and never say anything negative but help him when I can

Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 08:50AM

There is a story on Apple News about extra marital affairs and terms used like ‘cushioning ‘ or ‘backburnering’

It makes good reading ….🐣🐣🐣🐰🐰🐰

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