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How quickly can a meeting become sexual?

How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?

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giggly hamster - 01 Mar, 2024 - 11:15AM

Its easy to forget as well that this site like a swinger site is full of blokes who think that a woman is sat all day in her Linger-ree waiting to open her knees tothe first pm that rattles into the inbox, with their little veiny mars bar flopped on the table like a tenderloin slapped on the counter at the butchers.

It doesn't happen. Not this side of paying by the hour. that one won't care what you look like, how fat or thin you are, or how old or bald you are. It's a hair cut. "doing anything nice for the weekend? , going away this year? " You pay, you play, you walk away.

Everyone here has choices. that's what makes the end result so sweet, so worth the chase.

THinkingwomanshunk - you might want to look at dayuse.co.uk if you haven't already heard about it.

Paula beautiful, - pass another knitting needle my love...

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giggly hamster - 01 Mar, 2024 - 11:04AM

Why does this question seem like an attempt to collect some material to sit in a toilet cubicle and grumble yourself blind to?

How long's a piece of string?

Meet with Shiela and if you click then you're booking the room that same afternoon. Nothing wrong with that.

Whereas I imagine that the swoontastic Tentatrice would make you work for every bite of your lip and clench of your palms as you dance trying to get her to succumb to you as she pushes you away testing you once more to see what you're made of. But it's those encounters that make you go back. Like Paula says, it stays in your mind for days after.

I think, when I read stuff like this all I read is one word - connection. If that's there it's down to the couple to decide if they want panda (eats, roots, shoots, leaves) or something far more intricate and all consuming.

Pander or Panda, it's all about connection.

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Thinkingwomanshunk - 01 Mar, 2024 - 10:29AM

When it feels right.
I've come away from dates, where had there been opportunity (we really need those Japanese style per hour pod hotels), we would have ripped each others clothes off right away.
Other times lust needs to grow.
Men on the whole can separate emotion from sex, so there is a risk that it will turn into a bland one night stand. I. Short when it feels right for both parties.


laugar164 - 01 Mar, 2024 - 10:11AM

Fluffy clouds
Promise nothing and everything else is a bonus 😂


FluffyClouds - 27 Dec, 2022 - 05:35PM

It amazes me how many men promise amazing sexual enlightenment on here. The opposite is true. If they were so fantastic in bed why wouldn't their wives want to sleep with them? Having experienced lack of basic skills from here, I'm extra cautious now. Just because they say are great, doesn't mean they are.

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FreshMintTea - 27 Dec, 2022 - 05:11PM

@Paula99

Precisely .... or a cookery class 🤣🤣

You are at least guaranteed heat and passion in the room and if you are the adventurous type you can make it spicy!!

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Delicious Chaos - 27 Dec, 2022 - 04:49PM

First dare no. Not sure what will get out of it apart from fulfilling an urge plus it will probably be rubbish
Get to know someone first, make sure they aren’t going to mess you about the do it. Nothing worse than chatting for ages, lots of meets then when it comes to it the sex is bad. We’re not here for bad sex

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Paula99 - 27 Dec, 2022 - 04:18PM

FMT…

Like a knitting or a book club 😂😂

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FreshMintTea - 27 Dec, 2022 - 03:53PM

As soon as you both feel ready for that step but you also do want it to drag on and on.

To be honest do you want to spend a long time getting to know someone only to find out that you are not sexually compatible?. Some would say well I want
more than intimacy so we can still remain friends 😉but let’s face it intimacy is one of the main reasons we are all here ..... otherwise we would be better off joining a non-illicit friends/companionship group where we meet for coffee, chat, go for walks etc (all I know are way cheaper than this site🤣🤣)


leggysheila - 20 Feb, 2022 - 07:47AM

Love a "one night stand" xxxxxx

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