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Handsomeman1974 - 16 Dec, 2021 - 06:15PM

If thats what you are looking for I guess you will find it quick enough
Its not about long it takes to find
More how long it lasts when you get it ;)

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1489085 - 16 Dec, 2021 - 04:02PM

Like others, I have had a few first dates since originally joining IE.
Have I ever been tempted to speed things along on the same day? Yes, several times. Encouraged to do so? Sure. Even challenged? Once.
Have I actually done it? Never. Not a chance.
The stronger the attraction, the deeper the excitement, the closer the connection, the less I want to rush things. Should one sip or gulp down his glass of wine? No right answer. And it changes with the wine.

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1481947 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 05:56PM

As quick as you like .. you can tell within minutes.. seconds even , if the meet is going to end up with some sexy fun. Car sex as an adult is far more fun than it was as a teenager.

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Breakfastinbed - 14 Dec, 2021 - 04:07PM

Feel your way, it should become apparent if both are interested. Let the lady make the first move or give a signal.

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1479770 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 12:54PM

I always go with, meet for a cuppa and then meet up after for sex.
It can be really intense when chatting before first meet.
I tend to find, the newbies at this get so Randy, they'll jump straight into bed. The ones that have done this for a while, take it easy.

I will always say, I will work with what you feel safe with and will never be pushy.

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Paula99 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 11:15AM

In some cases if the sex is red hot all the time then it's hard to sustain that intensity...the relationship tends to burn out very quickly...😕

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kinghoy44 - 13 Dec, 2021 - 10:50PM

I guess it depends on how quickly you feel there’s a connection. Or how randy you both feel, in another answer. There are no hard or fast answers, to to speak, right?

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Andyoxf - 13 Dec, 2021 - 10:50PM

All of my long term relationships became sexual on the first date. Most of those which didn't became just friendships or we didn't meet again. I can think of hardly any exceptions.

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1492359 - 13 Dec, 2021 - 10:07PM

Just as she opens her mouth to say hello, quickly put it in...

New record.

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WestisBest - 13 Dec, 2021 - 09:58PM

Like some others I think there is nothing stopping two consenting adults doing what they like. Yes it has happened to me and yes it was fun and damn intense.

We saw each other a few times and it was all good but like some relationships do it had it’s time and we parted.

But there is no should could or would to this. It’s about following your instincts and being within your own boundaries.

I think if we are honest we all want intimacy through this site so if sometimes it comes quickly that’s not eighth or wrong. Sometimes I don’t need to be Mr Right for someone just Mr Right Now I understand that.

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