020 3633 0493 020 3633 0493
uk flag Used by over 1,786,674 genuine UK users since 2004

Flirt Forum

< Flirt Forum

Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

 17 members like this.


Sorry, you can not comment on this.


Comments (158)

Scrappymog - 24 May, 2025 - 09:14PM

It’d make me feel wrong.


Dawn60 - 24 May, 2025 - 08:44PM

Never needed it myself.. but if you do why not !


Delicious Chaos - 24 May, 2025 - 03:31PM

The queen
No disrespect but you’re 30 years old, come back when you’re in your 50’s going through the menopause !

 3 members like this comment.


TheQueen336 - 24 May, 2025 - 02:09PM

I think lube will make it all weird since you had the thought i would be old not to get to wet but thats not the truth.We do get wet. Personally i get wet most often so i dont think we will need lube xoxo


Magic Fingers 69 - 24 May, 2025 - 12:24PM

No Reason why a woman should feel in anyway inadequate using lube, if it helps entry and if she is smaller and the man is on the larger size it helps both parties.


LadyDe - 24 May, 2025 - 10:21AM

Personally I think people are missing some of the ‘Lube’ point …
Yes it helps certain people with certain conditions.
But we all forget it’s not just that, well not for me anyway. They come in all different formulas, tingling (love that hot cold feel) CBD to make more intense when you cum, warming mmm, and some help to slow down the orgasm…
So I think before we think it’s a failure on anyone’s part, let’s also think what added heights of pleasure they can bring to the party, rather than spit and rub 🤣🤣

 4 members like this comment.


Life is a beach - 24 May, 2025 - 12:14AM

I don't need it
If you need it, go for it, you should never feel bad about using it if it enhances your experience
Do use it without any shame and enjoy your relationship 😉

 2 members like this comment.


The Difference is Me - 22 May, 2025 - 08:49AM

Absolutely no offence intended to lube users but if I personally got to the stage (I'm 63) where I needed it then I feel that I would bow out of IE very gracefully! There is no better turn on for me than hearing and feeling natural wetness and the men I have had affairs with get totally turned on by the au naturel. But each to their own. I wouldn't even use it for anal play to be honest with you.

 5 members like this comment.


Dwilliam374 - 21 May, 2025 - 10:59PM

Of course
Why wouldn’t you


laugar164 - 21 May, 2025 - 08:44PM

Omg what is this fourm coming to when you ask these questions 🤦

 1 member likes this comment.

Currently online:
Registered Users: 784

secure discrete friendly