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Paula99 - 29 Jul, 2025 - 05:04AM

Lynn455…

Well said 😂😂😂😂

Lynn455 - 28 Jul, 2025 - 11:58PM

I wonder how much thought-up bull shit appears on here? Shouldn't we just feel open and free to say what we think? But we won't? Why can't women just say: 'I love having sex with gentle man with a large cock'? Isn't that just normal?

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CumbrianLanc - 28 Jul, 2025 - 08:25PM

I've never really ranked them, you can just tell if you have enjoyed it or not.
I have thought maybe there should be an app for it, but there would be so many scorned lovers and ethical issues.

Paula99 - 28 Jul, 2025 - 05:57PM

This question needs to be sent to Room 101…🧐

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laugar164 - 28 Jul, 2025 - 04:30PM

You should know by how the lady responds to your touch and what you are doing ,asking how was that would put a bit of a damp squib on the situation. Hopefully you get an idea what she is into. By the chats you have already had
Or you could always. Ask her to put it on a post it note And put it on her forehead 😂

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Amandi1712 - 28 Jul, 2025 - 03:51PM

I always ask how was that, what can I do to make it better for you. The key thing is keep it new and exciting, whether that’s quicky or something where you have more time. Don’t fall into the trap of making it routine, try new things, open your mind a bit.

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James Brooke - 28 Jul, 2025 - 10:58AM

I don’t think it would be well received that I’m unhappy about zero sex by my wife as she’s going go through menopause and sex doesn’t even register on her radar…

Bikerbaddboy25 - 28 Jul, 2025 - 10:25AM

Just tell the truth. No point in beating around the bush. Yes and I think everyone does it or why would we be on here . 😊

Doubleohseven - 28 Jul, 2025 - 09:30AM

Everyone at some point mentally compares his lover to the one(s) before. I don't mentally "rank" them, but I do note and compare. Why I like Abc so much? Is it because she's more open, more affectionate, less manipulative than Xyz? And if she's more shy in bed than Xyz, is there anything I can do to gradually build the trust that will reduce that shyness?
The crass element of these comparisons is taking them outside of your mind and communicating them to someone else. Unless that's part of the whole setup, as on FabSwingers (where it is really like on Amazon, with formal ratings) - not judging, but not for me.
An affair is a strange animal. You always strive to find the person who's got it all, both the things you love in your partner and the ones your partner lost, or never had. One affair after another, you get closer and closer to perfection....and when you find your perfect partner, you must be careful not to fall in love or it will vanish it from your hands.

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87athleticbrown7size - 28 Jul, 2025 - 08:57AM

Got to speak to each other clearly. Without it there is no connection..

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