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Connection

What is this elusive 'connection' everyone is looking for? Someone I chatted to, just on messages, seemed to believe we had a 'connection' because we were messaging! Connection for me is something only found in its real sense on meeting.

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TCOO12 - 27 Oct, 2023 - 10:50AM

Connections are on different levels. A connection first through messaging, understanding and seeing if a next step is desired by both.
Then meeting in person and the words are enhanced by body language, expressions and tone of voice. Connection on another level.
Then the connection that builds further shouod a relationship follow.
Connections continue to evolve beyond that too.

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Son Of Loki - 27 Oct, 2023 - 10:02AM

I’ve just joined and got an alert about this flirt forum thingy?

Well what now lol?

OK so reading prior comments this appears to be a discussion area. A connection can be deeply felt online and then hopefully translates at the sausage shack near Yeovil.

Only kidding, I’ll treat you to at least a Whopper.


1529050 - 27 Oct, 2023 - 09:22AM

I agree with Becky, before I agree to meet anyone I need to get to know a bit about them first, and to see if there is that connection. Otherwise why would we waste time and meet.

I think quite early on with messages you can see if you have things in common, if you are on the same wavelength, both looking for the same thing and I think you can get the gist of that over messages, and then this can be confirmed or dismissed once you meet.

As Becky said the true connection will come only after you meet.

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1408586 - 27 Oct, 2023 - 08:57AM

Absolutely a true connection is only found by getting to know someone over time in person. I would however only meet someone who I felt some form of connection with over messaging first. I think it’s easy to rule out those who I would never be able to form a genuine connection with and therefore no point in meeting for a drink like this.

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