Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2024 - 04:52PM
FluffyClouds - 09:51AM
I guess some leopards do change their spots then.
Impressive.
Well done. 👏
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Aim to please48 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 02:52PM
EmnEm123
I love you. You’re almost as entertaining as the BS you
think I’m posting 🥰🤣😂. Don’t change for anyone, not that you would😉😘.
Oh, and P99, my wife wants me to try and find happiness on here and does help, in more ways than one.
I actually consider myself a very lucky man.
Peace to all🙏🏽
EmnEm123 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 02:33PM
FluffyClouds
I really don't remember that but I will give you the benefit of the doubt. So you are one person who has admitted to being the OP. Well done! 🥱
LadyDe
You obviously haven't left the forum as you are commenting.
I have no right to object to someone having an open marriage, or anything else consenting adults want to get up to.
This particular scenario doesn't seem, to me, credible.
I won't apologise for having an opinion, after all this is the point of the forum.
I find it rather odd that a woman would complain about multiple women having an opinion.
Would you prefer that we all left the forum so that you, FluffyClouds and Enigma agree with any turgid nonsense that the men post?
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ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2024 - 09:19AM
"Leaving keys in a dish by the door"???
So very, very 1960s or which ever decade you've heard of regarding "swinging" ... 🤣🤣🤣
ExoticOrchid - 05 Jul, 2024 - 09:15AM
Yes, I get easily confused with these multiple profiles ... my bad!
Enigma.. - 05 Jul, 2024 - 08:54AM
@Aim to please48
I had a wee look at your profile earlier this morning 😊.
I thought it to be well written, open, honest and you state what you are looking for.
Your profile makes a refreshing change from the auto generated, short and over long full of BS profiles some males on here have.
And… I do hope that, going forward, if you think that Ie is the place for you, you meet someone that deserves you.
Decent and honest men are hard to find on this site.
All the best 🍀🤞🏻.
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Paula99 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 05:38AM
LadyDe…
Clearly you and your husband have a partnership that derives on trust and if your relationship is working then that’s all well and good ..
Concerning the OP in this …I wonder if his wife would be so ‘accommodating’ if the scenario was reversed…would she be so willing to ‘help’ him to find a Mistress Jenna if she was willing to ‘keep’ him at all costs..
Concerning your comment about the women on here …this is a chat room and you can’t expect everyone to agree with everything…😀
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1660660 - 05 Jul, 2024 - 12:11AM
Looking at this from a male perspective, @aim to please 48, you are going to end up more of a cuckold than in an open relationship. You need to decide if this is what you want. It might be and if so, good on you. But if this is going to cause you pain, then this is something to discuss with your wife.
None of us know the nuances of your relationship. I wish you the best of luck. For me, if my wife had an affair and she was discreet enough that I didn’t know about it, I would live in blissful ignorance. I would be neither happy nor sad- because I wouldn’t know and I would trust her to be faithful.
A seen thing can’t be unseen. She can’t take up this option now.
Clearly this is not the case for the two accounts who have been posting.
If you want to know, about her affairs, but not be a cuckold perhaps some variation of fetlife is the place for you to find the answers.
But the answers you find might not be what you want to hear.
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