When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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budgie817 - 30 Mar, 2025 - 05:42PM
It's begun to melt though...don't end up looking like a 2 year old Easter afternoon
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Paula99 - 27 Mar, 2025 - 05:30AM
Budgie817…
The flake is the best part …😉
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budgie817 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 07:42PM
Paula99
Can’t hurt to ask for feedback though can it and verbally looking for feedback before departing probably wise ‘was good to meet you hope we can meet up again…’ kind of thing and see if they look horrified.
It does sound like they are doing something off putting.
Are you called Paula 99 because you put a flake in it?
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Paula99 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 05:10PM
Budgie817…
Come off it ….as if asking for feedback is gonna work 😂
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budgie817 - 26 Mar, 2025 - 04:23PM
Maybe less is more, did you do anything off putting, say or act in a way liable to put them off, give them the impression of being out for yourself, not show any interest beyond bumping uglies.
Maybe a little conversation before leaving and be honest about intentions going forwards and maintaining contact, thanking them for a nice time etc. Or just ask for feedback.
1742947 - 25 Mar, 2025 - 06:20PM
Pre work - Prepare early - read her profile and through her corresepondence, think of some interesting open ended questions (ones that don't end in a Yes or No answer)
1. Shower and after shave
2. Hair cut
3. Nails
4. Clothes - new and washed
5 turn up v. early
6. listen - use your mouth and ears in the proportion God gave them to you
listen with curiosity, speak with honesty, act with integrity.
7. Remember the Chinese proverb ...woman who cannot smile should not open shop!
8. this is about enjoyment for both of you - if nothing else happens enjoy the experience and make sure she does too, irrespective if whether you fancy her or not
9 Pay the bill irrespective of whether you fancy her or not
10. Dont be pushy,read up on body langauge etc
Good luck
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EmnEm123 - 25 Mar, 2025 - 12:37PM
Funguy77
Unless the lady in question confirms smiles all round, we'll just have to take your word for it! 😁
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Funguy77 - 24 Mar, 2025 - 09:19PM
Hay I’m a complete gentleman. It is what it is I’m not here to date or romance anyone or a relationship lol it’s deep hard ruff intense and most importantly good fun had by all with massive smiles all round.
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ExoticOrchid - 24 Mar, 2025 - 03:30PM
Wow romance sure ain't dead ... what a gentleman!!!
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