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Red Flags 🚩

We hear regularly about the 'Red Flags' that turn people off a person in conversation and dates/meets. What have been your 'Red Flag' experiences during conversations and/or first dates? What lifted up the 🚩 for you? Or maybe it was a few 🚩 and worthy of bunting?

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Funguy77 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 11:48AM

@ bazookajo - 31 Jul, 2024 - 10:56AM

See if I had felt at the time she was wanting to tell me perhaps I may have felt differently. But it was a throw away comment that I felt uncomfortable with . Her mannerisms were odd on top of this but hoohumm I hope she’s well .

I seem to attract the crazy people including my ex-wife 🀣


bazookajo - 31 Jul, 2024 - 10:56AM

@Funguy77, you are right about what's normal to one can be a red line too far for another.

But I bet your bipolar date agonised over whether to reveal to you something highly personal online or in person. Neuro-diverse people are dateable too!

(No I'm not btw)

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Funguy77 - 31 Jul, 2024 - 09:36AM

Well where to start . None of us are perfect and what one person feels is normal to them can be a no no to others.

A massive Red flag 🚩 I got from a coffee date was when she told me she was bipolar. Now mental health issues are not a joking matter but WTF 😳

Needles to say I never asked for a second date

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