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1743108 - 12 Feb, 2025 - 06:21AM

The Lush

Plot twist.

The Lush - 11 Feb, 2025 - 10:19PM

Turn off: When a guy is rude to the waitress. Some guys seem to get an ego boost by being rude and dismissive to waiting staff at bars and restaurants. What they forget is that I WAS that waitress only a few years ago. It makes a big impression on me.

1661843 - 08 Feb, 2025 - 01:52PM

Profile and real life being massively different!

1744535 - 08 Feb, 2025 - 12:12PM

Generally most women are really nice, even if a second date doesnt happen but there are exceptions.

Catfished once... please dont do this ladies.

Second was on a date with a nice woman, good personality a big bum and attractive smile, so all good so far... We got on well but she started smoking during a walk (when her profile said she didnt smoke) and little observations like, greasy unmanaged hair, chewed nails and unpedicured feet made me feel uneasy and question her maintainance/hygiene for other areas... i politely declined a second date.

A while back i did an impromtu meet with a woman for coffee, i had came from the gym so not at my best... she did joke about me taking her to a coffee shop and saying i am cheap... i treated this as banter but she then mentioned she is looking for someone that can afford a good time. I smiled and simply said goodbye at which point she noticed my car as i was getting in, she rushed over to ask when are we meeting again, lol the cheek...

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Feb, 2025 - 10:15AM

"It's not the lie that bothers me but the insult to my intelligence"

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Cheryl Kim - 08 Feb, 2025 - 09:57AM

Positive meet - someone who turns up on time, presents well and has a lovely smile that tells you he wants to be there. Lots of laughter and warmth throughout the date. Even if nothing further happens, at least try and have a good time and go away happy.

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boav91 - 08 Feb, 2025 - 08:22AM

I am old enough, as many of us sadly are on here, to have grown up before mobile phones. My kids have no idea. We made arrangements and hoped they worked. I have had friends not turn up only for a day or two later to hear what happened after your imagination had run wild. . Bad things happen. If I am meeting someone now I still accept bad things happen but I do not expect to be hanging around wondering what happened. It has happened to me at least once and if the excuse is good enough, for example they were knocked out in hospital ( that was the excuse before anyone wonders) I may give them a second chance but not otherwise to me it just shows disrespect which in a really busy life when I have had to skip work and income to meet is just bad. A text costs nothing these days and saves a load of issues. Manners counts for a lot at least to me

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1743108 - 07 Feb, 2025 - 05:29PM

The best drives or rides are always on the more scenic routes, long curves and sweeping bends..otherwise it’s just a straight road and how quickly you can get to sixty and then a hundred before you have to slam the brakes on and….

Delicious Chaos - 07 Feb, 2025 - 05:07PM

Well I think today takes the biscuit. First messages commenting about weight! Apparently because I describe myself as curvy, and whilst he and me may get on it wouldn’t be sexual due to my curviness. Not sure how a 5ft 5 .5. In. Woman who’s a size 12 with curves in the right places deserves a. Message like that! Just proves the male species can be very strange!

sparktacus - 06 Feb, 2025 - 10:24PM

Scent and manners! Manners welcome you! It is very important from the first moment of writing here to the last kisses...
When feelings get closer, scent is absolutely critical! A nice smell from kitchen gets you hungry, right? This is same for passion too. Smeeling fresh and scent shoulders, hair and then kissing that neck must blow my mind off.
I feel the same for my partner too (this is also part or respect): clean teeth, fresh breath, nice scent (i really wonder your perfume preferences ladies, please message me)... Anyway, i keep my optimistic side up and explained only wondeful hahaha :)

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