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1642942 - 18 Jan, 2024 - 11:59AM

Ask each other some of the "36 questions"

Search online for:
36 Questions To Bring You Closer Together
Get to know someone and create a sense of intimacy, in as little as an hour

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/open-gently/201310/36-questions-bring-you-closer-together

EmnEm123 - 16 Jan, 2024 - 08:11PM

AAGilfan

Surely you don’t find what Sexy Sinead suggested as things that would raise eyebrows between any partners?
I don’t particularly like her terminology but surely oral sex isn’t something outwith the norm?
Otherwise, what are you referring to?

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AAGilfan - 16 Jan, 2024 - 06:45PM

SexySinead (07 Jan 2024) All that sounds wonderful but its not something to be done by rote or just by way of routine. Otherwise it is just going through the motions. Yes, all of those things work, but the real fun comes if you have a great connection and you make little changes together as you do all those things, being in tune with each others' reactions and responses. It is those little things that make all the difference. And sometimes it is easier to make the suggestions for making those little changes with an IE, with whom you are prepared to explore and try things than with your life partner as one can reach a point where making suggestions may raise eyebrows or unsettle things. That is the beauty of having an IE P

1447655 - 14 Jan, 2024 - 07:53AM

I've got to the bottom of the sexual bucket, and there isn't any intimacy there.

So my new list comprises of: warmth, mutuality, someone who is really into me, lots of laughter, a bed with a duvet (to snuggle under a duvet, what luxury is this that people speak of?!) Kissing, affection, maybe even eat food together?!

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giggly hamster - 13 Jan, 2024 - 10:42PM

Alfresco,

I love that word.

It's a proper Englalian word!

Onekissmore - 13 Jan, 2024 - 10:36PM

Take a bottle of fizz to bed and drink it from each other’s mouth and body.

Spend time kissing, laughing and caressing.

And don’t keep love making just for the bedroom, or even indoors. Go alfresco.

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giggly hamster - 13 Jan, 2024 - 10:06PM

@Rplod12345

there's got to be an easier way of getting mr winky to turn into lord winky than using a cycle pump these days surely? I suppose it's the same attachment you use to do sunbeds as opposed to the thin one that looks like a hypodermic?

@cheesypuff
based on your success, I think I'm going to go shopping for a cycle pump.

1010337 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 09:45PM

My IE and I have a sexual to do list that's a shared document we can both add things to. We've had it about 9 months but are yet to tick anything off it yet as we get too carried away just fucking.

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LadyDe - 13 Jan, 2024 - 07:11PM

@Rplod
12/1 12.49pm

If I remember right Louis Theroux did an episode on the exclusive order doll range … was that subtle enough

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1614937 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 04:09PM

@Rplod12345

Looking for someone less than half your age isn't going to encourage many women to contact you!

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