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Bikerdude69 - 21 Jun, 2025 - 11:32AM

Well isn't what this site is all about , you're married so therfore only want the bits thats missing in your own relationship and that seems to be intimacy, a mutual understanding of what you both want is to be settled from day one or it won't work ... says me that's got a million messages and no one messages back 🤣

Paula99 - 21 Jun, 2025 - 09:20AM

Unfortunately….we all know before we succumb to this type of relationship that it’s only temporary in the majority of these cases…
There are people on here that have been in a LT affair for over/or near a decade but this is rare ..these sorts of affairs are usually down to work schedules/connections and emotional maturity plus commitment to hold onto ‘something for themselves’ …also there is the ‘safety/discretion’ discretion factor which unfortunately some members can’t seem to control….reckless behaviour just turns the partnership sour …
In my opinion if you have the ingredients ..you can set / stick to your boundaries ..have your emotions under wraps …then you can have the affair to remember..
Remember one thing …if your affair is torrid in the beginning you will have a hard time holding on to it …hot sex won’t keep you together … it ‘needs work’ 😊

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Here we go 693 - 04 Feb, 2025 - 06:34PM

DC

We were together for a little under a year. It doesn't seem a lot,but we saw each other a lot, not always for sex, sometimes just to chat. She ended it because ultimately she was unhappy in her marriage and wanted to get a divorce. She also wanted more than I was prepared to give her and knowing that she took the decision to end things. It has been hard, but I have been supporting her with her divorce and she knows if ever she needs to vent she can rely on me. No, she isn't back on the site.

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Delicious Chaos - 04 Feb, 2025 - 06:19PM

Here we go

Did she say why? How long were you together and is she back on here?!

Paula99 - 04 Feb, 2025 - 05:56PM

Hwg693..

It’s nice to see that you both value your friendship..and are dealing with the ‘grief’ together which is much easier..

👍😊

Here we go 693 - 11 Jan, 2025 - 10:54AM

Sorry to bore anyone (Paula). If you've seen it already, skip it.

My IE said she couldn't see me anymore as my lover a month ago. I was completely devastated. I knew something was up as the communication had changed. Before we would message all the time, then it became very patchy with long breaks between messages. We have remained friends however as we both agreed we had such a good connection. It will never be the same, but I will be eternally grateful to her for the time we had. Equally I will be eternally grateful she didn't just ghost me.

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1549003 - 11 Jan, 2025 - 10:32AM

Well, it's that time when you just know. I ended mine (I've only had one IE partner) because she fell in love with me! Is that a good reason, or make me a bad man?

1698859 - 23 Aug, 2024 - 01:55PM

Paula99

Your comment is also bang these things just develop over time I joined with the look of oh these things will only last a few months but one didnt it was a brilliant 3 years I wouldn’t change a thing

& I only said if your unhappy it’s just how I go here in the first place
You all have a good weekend 👌

1698859 - 23 Aug, 2024 - 01:24PM

You are bang on write with your comment 👍

EmnEm123 - 23 Aug, 2024 - 01:19PM

Quietboy

Everyone who has an affair isn't necessarily desperately unhappy at home as you have just learned.

Your AP has chosen to stay with her husband.

I think most people would try not to let an affair adversely affect their "real" life.

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