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Attractiveness is...

Men, what do you find attractive in a female? Fashion, makeup, figure, looks, personality?

Women, what do you find attractive in a man? Suits, casual, formal, hair, height, size, personality?

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Clarice963 - 12 Jan, 2025 - 11:30PM

I find a man who is confident
smells great , and witty
attractive

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Clickable Connection - 12 Jan, 2025 - 10:52PM

Life is a beach - 12 Jan, 2025 - 09:27PM

Sorry didn't see your post. Yes to all that ❤️

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Clickable Connection - 12 Jan, 2025 - 10:51PM

Here we go 693 - 12 Jan, 2025 - 10:15PM

😂😂

leggysheila - 12 Jan, 2025 - 10:31PM
By your brother-in-law ?? 🤔😂


leggysheila - 12 Jan, 2025 - 10:31PM

My legs when they are being gently opened xxx


Here we go 693 - 12 Jan, 2025 - 10:15PM

The way things are going, someone who lives less than a couple of hours away would be quite attractive. Very few chances of that!!! 😂


Life is a beach - 12 Jan, 2025 - 09:27PM

Physical attraction is the start. Someone who looks after themselves and keeps fit.
Someone can look great wearing jeans or a suit.
Someone you feel very comfortable with after that initial attraction, someone you can share things with and have a laugh with. Someone you can talk with for ages.
If you are lucky enough to find it, keep hold of it, it's worth gold 😘

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Clickable Connection - 12 Jan, 2025 - 07:44PM

naughtynisha - 12 Jan, 2025 - 07:15PM
Yes smelling good , is actually a very attractive quality 👍

Doubleohseven - 12 Jan, 2025 - 07:00PM
Whole looks are important, and is probably the initial deciding factor , if they don't have personality to go , it won't go far.
Agreed personality trumps looks , all day long 👍


naughtynisha - 12 Jan, 2025 - 07:15PM

I find intelligent, nice scent, witty tall men attractive.

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Doubleohseven - 12 Jan, 2025 - 07:00PM

To me, non-negotiable attractiveness criteria are, by ranking:
1) Personality: being emotionally stable, funny, curious about the world, independent
1) Intellect: smart, cultured, well-mannered, well travelled
1) Looks: sorry, I am not in the "it's all about the connection" camp. Personally, I need someone conventionally feminine and easy on the eye, with feline moves and a toned physique. Like my current IE.
1) Prior affairs: no rookies still "iffing and umming" and wasting time here
1) Age: I am not in the "age is just a number" camp either. Most people do look their age - enough said. My IEs were 2-20 years younger than me
1) IE mileage: limited. No perennial windowshoppers and 24/7 fantasists. A lady hating IE and about to leave it
Each of the above is uncommon enough (10-15% of the IE population), and their intersection nearly impossible (2-3%). Still, in a society that has stopped believing in either hard work or miracles, the good news is that miracles to happen - if you put in the hard work.

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Clickable Connection - 10 Jan, 2025 - 08:31AM


BraGirl - 06 Jan, 2025 - 09:23P

What ? Guys actually have the time to do that ? Why don't they just take the time to write a good message ? Honestly some guys give us men a bad rep

Claudia1011 - 08 Jan, 2025 - 02:33PM
Spot on , 100%

Lackofrain - 08 Jan, 2025 - 01:07PM
Just lingerie? She could get arrested for that 😂

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