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I have been talking to a wonderful woman for some time. We are meeting next week for drinks and maybe more. Has anyone used Viagra as an aid? Will the woman mind? I really like her but feel nervous as it has been so long since anyone has taken an interest in me. I do not want to disappoint.


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Paula99 - 25 May, 2025 - 03:32PM

Ok people …Viagra and other ED meds must be taken on an empty stomach half to an hour before you have sex…despite what people think the you will be walking around with a ‘stiffy’ all day and all night …ED meds don’t work like that ….there has to be stimulation/foreplay and help to ‘get hard’ but remaining hard is still an issue so don’t go thinking that Viagra is a magic cure …..
Another factor to this is stress/lack of sleep and general anxiety’s can cause the medication to fail….you do need to be ‘ in a good place mentally’ to maximise the effects of Viagra…beware ED meds can’t be prescribed with certain drugs and they are prescription only….


Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 02:26PM

Tmn

Yes action time, not my words but if you google it (patient access) it’s their words!

You didn’t need to disclose my friend it was clear you use it. Plus people’s reactions to it are very different and yes you can have an erection for a long time, hence why I would be running for the hills if I was faced with that on a first meet in the bedroom


Cheryl Kim - 25 May, 2025 - 02:09PM

Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 12:30PM

That’s when we add lube to the shopping basket, with or without Viagra propping him up 😁

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tmn2024 - 25 May, 2025 - 01:24PM

Delicious Chaos,

"Action time"?? 🤣

Viagra gives you a four hour window within which time it helps achieve and maintain an erection. It does NOT increase your normal sex drive, nor does it turn you into some sort of super human jackhammer.

Disclosure time - I use it sometimes. The reason I use it is because I'm not a full of oats 20 year old any more, and I find that using condoms kills sensation to the point where I can get it up but then struggle to keep it up. Viagra helps me overcome that problem very effectively, but it does not turn me into an out of control hound dog that might spend four straight hours humping. My own hips would be turned into dust if it did.


ClassyLady77 - 25 May, 2025 - 01:21PM

Don’t presume you will get some action first meet.. i definitely don’t do that first meet and I’m sure lots of Women on here don’t too

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Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 12:30PM

Tmn
I believe a single dose of viagra will give you an action time of 4 hours. I’m sorry but if I was faced with a hard cock for 4 hours on a first meet I would be running for hills and off to the chemist for some sudacrem!! 😁

Slow and steady for me


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tmn2024 - 25 May, 2025 - 12:14PM

People clearly have no clue how viagra actually works 🙄


Scrappymog - 25 May, 2025 - 11:41AM

All that blood draining from your brain..you could pass out…and still have a hard on!…..lying there………passed out, with a hard on..passed out…hard on…………………………………………unawake…unaware…


..with a hard on.


Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 11:18AM

Please do not pop a pill. I think that would scare me off of a guy was constantly erect and not finishing on a first date and would be questioning the use of visgra. Go on the date, see how it goes and if necessary and if needed then pop the pill but be respectful and tell her that’s what you are doing. A man going at throughout the session would really turn me off and I wouldn’t be going back


Peaches1 - 25 May, 2025 - 11:06AM

Do you need Viagra due to a medical reason or are just and using this as an aid? If erectile dysfunction is an issue I think it's only fair you inform her of this as sex being the end goal on this site.

Maybe if people didn't rush into sex it both would feel comfortable and unlikely to experience pressured floppy moments.

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