CharminglyCandid

About Me:

Okay so here we are then.
GETTING TO KNOW BE THE FIRST STEP !
As a divorcee, with a limited social circle and by means of meeting ,it is perhaps with the sense of convenience rather than preference, that I am drawn here.
I wont be a serial dater, nor treat this as some kind of interesting experiment, or embark on meeting 25 different women in order to find Mrs Right. Each of us wishes to be the priority. Not the option and not to be taken from a lengthy list of considerations !
Aside from that being far too time consuming and discouraging I believe from the early encounters we know if there be any kind of connection to develop or any further liaison is to be encouraged.
After all Life's too short to play silly mind games .But I acknowledge nothing happens without effort and we get out what we put in.
As for me. Yes, I am drawn to the quieter life, but now here to fill a void. The tactile warm sensuality of a woman's liaison and company I now seek.
***To fit the bill, fit and good walker talker.,occasional meals out...music lover, all kinds of music (listening).... spirituality and the way the mind works... weekends away.... Country walks...or by the sea and seaside ... .various sports (watching) follow F1 with a passion ... .as indeed interest in cars ... .travel and keeping abreast of news interest (home and abroad)....and yes, a glimpse of the political scene.
So too an appreciation of history, culture and artistic performance. Be that visual, written or on stage.***
I am silver haired, thin on top, ( sometimes stubble or bearded ) male.
No beer belly here. Finely toned and presentable. Hold an affinity to smart and casual dress sense with appreciation of fashion trends..
Coming in at over 6 ft .A well read all round package but certainly not. Dead, Collapsed or Defeated ..loll !!
In fact the heart says I am less than half my age, whereas the head says. Hang on, and have a different view.
Arh well. I treat that as having a healthy excitable exuberance combined with the experience of years.
You will find me intelligent, able to hold a conversation, down to earth with a sense of warmth. Everyone enjoys a sense of fun, so yes, witty with a dry sense of humour which I confess can go quirky with a bit of 'zany alternative' at times. With some maybe feeling they didn't quite get that.
Ya know..a Robin Williams moment !!!
I can have my moments of deeper conversation too.
As a tactile, sensitively aware empath, I am acutely attuned to not merely my own feelings, but equally to those of others. A belief and awareness that none of us are perfect.
I know when to speak. But importantly. I know when to listen !
And I know when banter needs to give way to meaningful conversation and sense of understanding.
Romantically with the right person I am not bashful and open to convey my thoughts, desires and emotions.
Without a doubt. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am extremely tactile.
With kindness and consideration it is with these characteristics and all the above that a most perceptive and convivial union is sought. And to see where that leads.
Oh and as you might gather.
I have no aversion to, in fact, I enjoy writing as this is a most telling medium So come on. What are you waiting for !
After all, Good communication sometimes can be as stimulating as black coffee...with the same possible result.. That is to say with some positivity. Once sampled It Is difficult to sleep after !!!

Ideal Partner:

I am looking initially for companionship and then with the right person. Who knows !
I am not looking for one night stands.
My ideal woman would be someone who is prepared to wear her heart on her sleeve and be honest about her emotions.
To first capture the mind as a gateway to melting the heart.
And no silly mind games. Sometimes just being ordinary can actually be extraordinary.
Warm, sensual and tactile with appreciation of the simpler things in life that together make moments special.

Other Interests:

Travel / Sightseeing

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