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benm468

43, London

Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Friendship, Romance & Fun, Casual

Asian, Non-Smoker, Non-Drinker

Occupation: Financial Services
Education: Doctoral Degree/Ph.D
Eye Colour: Brown
Hair Colour: Black
Religion: Catholic

Looking for Female between the ages of 21 and 99

Star Sign: Leo
Last Active: Online Now!!

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About Me:

I'm a data scientist in finance working in a small office in Mayfair and have a wife and children. Apparently living the dream - but in reality missing the one thing we are here for - a like-minded, secret, affair partner!

Trump haters need not linger on - I am a bit of an antithesis for the liberal progressives admittedly, as I am a person of color, and an immigrant - yet I find my views mostly aligned with conservatives and values traditional. On the other hand if you are into any of those things come say hi and maybe we can meet for a fun drink and a rant about the left!

Not going to lie - I came on this site because married life has become more like a business partnership - albeit one I still want to keep. I miss the other good bits, though - a confidante, an accomplice in fun. Someone to delight and whom to feel desired by in return.

Kind, respectful, well-read, experienced in affairs, and a bon-vivant at heart. Could I be your cup of tea? Can't wait to hear from you!

Ben M.

Ideal Partner:

I am looking for someone married, age 30's to mid 50's, who is like-minded, and has the ability to match my timings - mostly these would be daytimes during weekdays (say over an extended "lunch-break" ) - or less frequently for evenings or weekends.

Beggars can't be choosers so even if you don't tick all of these boxes am still open to discussing - if we like each other there will always be a workaround.

Other Interests:

Music - Country, Music - Christian / Gospel, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Politics, Literature / History, Religion, Gym / Aerobics, Singing / Playing Instrument, Computers / Internet, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine