bob_herts

About Me:

I am an easy going man, with a sense of humour who has a very positive outlook on life. Anticipating what is round the corner is what makes life interesting. I am tolerant of others and enjoy meeting people from all cultures and places. I am quite comfortable in my own skin and know who I am and what I enjoy.

I am married and I do not want to change this. Married life has become a friendship which is just about doable. I do not want to hurt anyone but I do miss the spark and thrill of a real man and woman relationship. I would like to meet someone who is tactile, likes kissing, has her own opinions on many topics and some interests we can share. Life is too short. One needs to be bold in these matters and not dwell on the negatives. So if you feel the same way, please do get in contact.

I work for myself so have a busy but fairly flexible life.

I have tried to keep myself in decent shape and my hobbies include tennis, cycling, walking and exploring new areas/countries. I used to go skiing quite a lot but children stopped that. However I would like to have a go again.

I do enjoy music, going to the theatre and cinema and I read a lot. Musicically I am a 70's lover - Pink Floyd, U2, Springsteen, Dylan, Roxy Music, Eagles, Clapton, Van Morrison and even dear old Lennie Cohen. I can also enjoy Pavorotti and Christie Moore. I read a lot, including David Baldacci, Olin Steinhuer, Terry Hayes ("I am Pilgim" is a great book) as well as current affairs material (Times) and a fair amount of stock market investment material (my other main hobby).

Foodwise, I enjoy almost anything and a good bottle of wine. However the company is what really makes a good meal.I am about 5' 9" tall, trim for my age without being too thin, probably down to a lifetime love of racket sports (squash & tennis) and still have much of my own hair.

I do work in one of the professions so it's suits mostly during the week though at weekends I tend to drop into jeans and casual gear. I do not like looking scruffy.

Ideal Partner:

I would like to meet someone who is equally easy going, comfortable with themselves, who enjoys a laugh and has their own views on life, love, politics, culture etc. My ideal person is a mix of physicality, personality, friendship and a sense of fun.

Appearance wise, I tend to prefer ladies who are neither very thin or very heavy.

I was brought up a catholic but now consider myself to be agnostic. If you are looking for a religion, it is best to pass on. I believe in treating people the way I want to be treated and in fairness. I am very happy meeting people from all races, countries and creeds providing they feel the same.

AS an ex-smoker, I do not wish to go there again so non-smokers preferred.

Other Interests:

Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Politics, Literature / History, Cycling, Sailing / Boating, Ice / Snow Sports, Tennis / Racket Sports, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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