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laugar164 - 16 Jan, 2024 - 09:40AM

For me if I find an IE I would want to be exclusive
I'm not into multiple IE's I like to focus my attention on just one

Not found my one IE yet but I live in hope

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Enigma.. - 16 Jan, 2024 - 07:05AM

Unlike those who live in and around the London areas or in or near a large English city some of us have limited choices when it comes to finding an IE.
Throw into the mix a lack of availability time wise… only available to meet up every 4 - 8 weeks or longer or conflicting schedules it’s little wonder most of us haven’t actually met 1 IE never mind 2 or 3.
However…
I know several members, both male and female, who have multiple IE’s because of the lack of availability.
One female said to me “In order to get any satisfaction from the site I’ve had to find myself more than one lover”.
I thought she was joking. She wasn’t.
I would like to point out that I do not have “multiple lovers”.
Trying to find just one lover is difficult enough 😉🙄😏.
Perhaps multiple sites is the answer lol 😃😂😉.

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Dondada7 - 16 Jan, 2024 - 01:49AM

Haven’t got one not to talk of two IE lol.

xSASSx - 15 Jan, 2024 - 05:08PM

It's already hard to click with one person with the amount of messages you get on here so multiple IE...I don't think so...oh wait...still haven't found the one 🤦‍♀️

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Celtic Adoration - 15 Jan, 2024 - 03:52PM

its a great (multiple) question !

I guess its a individual choice, but for me, I have always been monogamous with my IE lovers.
No sexual relationship with my spouse.
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1586130 - 15 Jan, 2024 - 09:15AM

If you're a guy, then finding an IE partner is like finding a needle in a haystack. The idea of men having multiples is very unrealistic.

But for women it's a whole different ballgame.

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Playtimehasarrived - 14 Jan, 2024 - 01:05PM

It’s most definitely a personal choice!

Personally, I like to sample a taster menu before I settle a while to relish the taste of my chosen dish.

I’ve always found it rather hypocritical when I’m told by an IE that they expect me to be loyal to them only. If we all worshipped at the altar of loyalty, this site wouldn’t exist!

I’m always open and honest and have luckily found friends with the same mindset.

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RichTee540 - 14 Jan, 2024 - 10:23AM

Who has time for more than one anyway. I was in an amazing relationship on here but just ended. I would never consider multiple IEs

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boav91 - 14 Jan, 2024 - 08:58AM

So the bottom line is if you have a great IE, for me, you can fulfil all your needs there. If it is not great you look around. To some degree it is akin t what draws many of us here in the first place. With my IE we take each others spare time either chatting online or when we can meeting that it would be impossible to do that with two people time wise . Like I say though if that were different and the one relationship did not satisfy I can imagine people looking but maybe that is about the quality of what people have that they keep looking. An before people say that is men, I know some women on here who do that too from having chatted to them in the past.

Also there are players who just like that but for for me juggling normal life and 1 great IE is enough.

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Doricles - 14 Jan, 2024 - 08:15AM

The bottom line is that monogamy is hard and we’re not biologically built for it. Despite the human desire to be heard, seen and loved in a romantic lifetime partnership, our natural urges for sexual exploration are arguably stronger. A monogamist relationship, whether within marriage or otherwise, is not inherently egotistical or possessive, as it’s based on mutual agreement and respect between partners. And it’s the same on here: people have different relationship preferences, and as long as those preferences are consensual and respectful, they’re valid. We all have our own reasons for being here and we all have our own wants, needs and desires. But being on a website that makes infidelity easier doesn’t mean you have to push the boundaries of relationship norms. This site opens the door to a more promiscuous lifestyle: whether you choose to step through that door is a matter for you! It’s not a question of what’s morally right: it’s a question of what’s right for you.

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