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RichTee540 - 14 Jan, 2024 - 10:23AM

Who has time for more than one anyway. I was in an amazing relationship on here but just ended. I would never consider multiple IEs

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boav91 - 14 Jan, 2024 - 08:58AM

So the bottom line is if you have a great IE, for me, you can fulfil all your needs there. If it is not great you look around. To some degree it is akin t what draws many of us here in the first place. With my IE we take each others spare time either chatting online or when we can meeting that it would be impossible to do that with two people time wise . Like I say though if that were different and the one relationship did not satisfy I can imagine people looking but maybe that is about the quality of what people have that they keep looking. An before people say that is men, I know some women on here who do that too from having chatted to them in the past.

Also there are players who just like that but for for me juggling normal life and 1 great IE is enough.

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Doricles - 14 Jan, 2024 - 08:15AM

The bottom line is that monogamy is hard and we’re not biologically built for it. Despite the human desire to be heard, seen and loved in a romantic lifetime partnership, our natural urges for sexual exploration are arguably stronger. A monogamist relationship, whether within marriage or otherwise, is not inherently egotistical or possessive, as it’s based on mutual agreement and respect between partners. And it’s the same on here: people have different relationship preferences, and as long as those preferences are consensual and respectful, they’re valid. We all have our own reasons for being here and we all have our own wants, needs and desires. But being on a website that makes infidelity easier doesn’t mean you have to push the boundaries of relationship norms. This site opens the door to a more promiscuous lifestyle: whether you choose to step through that door is a matter for you! It’s not a question of what’s morally right: it’s a question of what’s right for you.

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Life is a beach - 14 Jan, 2024 - 12:01AM

I like one good steak and one salad, not two.
I find my IE relationship fabulous and wouldn't cross my mind to contemplate someone else.
I can see why some of you who don't get a good steak would like 2 salads 😅.
Yes, there is a lot of temptation, especially for us ladies who don't have to pay.
If you have found someone great, why would you even consider seeing someone else?

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Somniata - 13 Jan, 2024 - 11:28PM

Is one IE enough you ask! I guess it depends on the nature of your 'encounters'. If you are about casual, NSA type of relationships then I guess you won't feel the need to be especially faithful. I prefer a romantic exclusive affair, so yeah I'm monogamous and I believe he is too. I don't have a physical relationship with my husband and since I started with my IE I almost feel he is my sexual partner. It's funny but my husband, after years of not reaching out to me, has started to be a bit more touchy-feely and it feels weird. I don't really respond because I no longer have any sexual feelings for him. My IE and I are so physically compatible, I almost feel we were meant to be.☺️
I've been asked by some why I'm still on IE if I've found The One - well, because I like being here, especially the forum.

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giggly hamster - 13 Jan, 2024 - 10:12PM

Isn't this question like asking someone to cut their own throat?

Obviously my question is hypothetical as I don't actually understand the question.

This is obviously aimed at the lady's as the phenomenon of women throwing themselves at your feet is something that I experience all the time, till I wake up and realise it's morning again, and in the words of henry's cat... "oh no, it was all a dream'.

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Secret_fun2020 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 04:25PM

Always! Being with one partner only (wife not counted as there's v v v little sex) instills trust and that leads to better sex

1639646 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 04:03PM

It's hard enough to fit in one IE plus normal life so no idea how you would go about having multiple IE's.

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WineAndOlives - 13 Jan, 2024 - 03:57PM

Not sure my head, heart or time management skills could handle seeing more than one from IE.

Always see my IE life as parallel to home life ( bit more colour to it maybe), and hasn't affected life at home.

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1447655 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 12:05PM

Ahh yes, the main course and the side salad conundrum.

Problem is that when you really like the steak the salad just won't do. And the salad always really likes you. But if the steak simply will not let itself be eaten, do you then need two salads? Or do you look to replace the steak?! One for vanilla and one for kink?!

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