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LadyDe - 13 Jan, 2024 - 11:33AM

@paula99

Yet again ditto to all you say 🫶🏼

For me if I had 2 or more on the go it would be all the sexting inbetween meets … my last IE I was lucky to have weekly meets (I am greedy) but equally quality over quantity wins for me now, if my IE can only do once a month, even if it’s frustrated torture it will be worth it if it’s good 😊

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Paula99 - 13 Jan, 2024 - 11:10AM

In the past we have discussed the idea of a ‘side salad and in some instances it could work..
If you only see your IE maybe once month because he travels and maybe can only ‘fit you in’ on one occasion and of course if family issues clash then you get cancellations…each time the ‘waiting ‘ gets longer.
The answer could be to take another lover to cover the interim stage..
You could have one vanilla and one kinky….best of both worlds😂
The down side of it is you are juggling home/family/work life which is extremely difficult…can you keep up with 2 lovers and your partner/husband/wife

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LadyDe - 13 Jan, 2024 - 09:35AM

Yep I was monogamous to my IE. I mean who has time for several? Im chilled with the exclusive thing though, if they want to introduce someone or want to go to a private sex club I’m cool with that, I might want to come too…as a couple your journey is your journey, the only rules are what you both agree on as an IE couple. As far as married life yep we’re still active too …

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1521502 - 17 Jul, 2022 - 07:21AM

I have had one IE on here a couple of years ago and yes I was monogamous , having said that I don't get many offers as i am not the tall broad handsome man all the ladies on here are looking for so not had a lot of temptation .
I am not having a sexual relationship with my spouse , if I was I wouldn't be on here

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mipaulac - 17 Jul, 2022 - 03:40AM

Isn't life busy enough !!! I just don't know how someone can fulfil multiple sexual or other liasons unless it's in the form of an occasional threesome

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1395366 - 17 Jul, 2022 - 01:49AM

I’ve had lots of fun x

1534972 - 17 Jul, 2022 - 01:43AM

Having used this site in the past to successfully meet my perfect AP, I was monogamous to him for over three years. I am looking for the same now as I’m back seeking another IE. In my opinion, when you find the right for you IE, you’d not be seeking others. That would be more aligned to someone simply looking for sex partners.
Additionally, I do not have any sexual relationship with my legal partner, and find myself interested in IE partners who are the same in that regard.

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Somniata - 16 Jul, 2022 - 10:33PM

Been physically monogamous. I actually don't think I have the capacity for promiscuity! I do flirt and chat with other people though but I do advise them I have someone so there is no likelihood of any thing other than flirting! Yes, I do tell my IE that I sometimes chat with others! My legal partner and I have not been physically involved for years and it's funny, since I found my IE, my partner has started to make, shall we say, moves!! It's really strange. But someone said if you are in a happy, sexual relationship you give off pheromones that other potential partners can sense! I guess that's what is going on. lol. But truth is, I'm off him and was hurt by his years of neglect, so no chance I'd give in. Besides, my IE is an amazing lover:)

Sexy Senorita xo - 16 Jul, 2022 - 10:10PM

This is such a good question. I did consider whether I wanted multiple IEs or just the one but for me, just the one made more sense. I don't really have the time or inclination to juggle more than one IE. I always wanted an IE who wants just one IE too, just my preference. I purposely wanted an IE who was still in a sexual relationship (of sorts) with their partner as I wanted there to be no misunderstandings, this was strictly an affair - some fun, sex, laughter & good times. So far, so good.

1393228 - 22 Jul, 2020 - 06:25PM

ALWAYS.
If it's just a lot of sex that's needed, this is not the place. It's not that hard to find, especially if a connection isn't important. Each to their own, but if it's just about the thrill of the chase and notching a cricket score, there are bars and sites that can cater for it. This has always offered much more, if you're prepared to commit to it.

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