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Let one's hair down

Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down. 
Can anyone relate?

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truth and logic - 04 Aug, 2021 - 07:06AM

I feel sexier and more inner peace(i know a good seeing to will do that)but i feel better about myself. Hubby would not notice but i do and thats what matters.

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Niceguy6770 - 03 Aug, 2021 - 10:24PM

I am much happier when in an affair yes


1320953 - 03 Aug, 2021 - 09:37AM

How lovely that you feel so happy but be careful with the difference you are obviously showing , it can be a problem . If you’re too happy , too chipper especially after a date it , maybe tone it down or it will arouse suspicion as to why the change .

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1389672 - 29 Oct, 2020 - 05:38PM

A man/woman really shouldn’t be the source of your happiness.

I’ve been there, and to be totally honest, I realised after all the highs and lows, that living yourself first is the key to finding the right person.

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Nic70 - 29 Oct, 2020 - 05:16PM

He he - yes, I did smile a lot during mine which caused folk who knew me to ask ‘what was wrong’. Fulfilment as @ a bed of roses mentioned. Separate worlds which need not collide. Although finished - another casualty of Covid - the warm glow persists.

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Ade.mac2017 - 23 Sep, 2020 - 05:34PM

When I was engaged in my affair I was over the moon. The sex was amazing. The support was even better. We chatted everyday on the way into walk. I had a lover and a best friend. Strangely enough I got on better with my now ex wife. I’ve subsequently lost both woman. I had it all. Oh well chin up.

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Helensburgh - 20 Sep, 2020 - 07:15PM

Are you still free

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1329251 - 19 Sep, 2020 - 02:06PM

Sounds like you've had a good boost of confidence xxx

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markymarkmark7 - 19 Sep, 2020 - 12:33AM

Great news an affair can make life seem so wonderful and life stronger

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Martin247e - 17 Sep, 2020 - 09:05AM

I agree!
A good affair should actually enhance a marriage!!!

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