Let one's hair down
Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down.
Can anyone relate?
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Paula99 - 10 Jun, 2025 - 04:19PM
It never ceases to amaze me …guys get to 50 and have not had an affair before and they decide on a whim that this is what they need … it can’t be any other reason of course …no evaluation of lifestyle…work patterns…empty nest..heath..etc etc ..it’s got to be another woman 👩….nothing else will work and nothing has been tried in the meantime …🧐
Let’s be realistic guys ….🫤
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YourSecretLover - 10 Jun, 2025 - 01:58PM
Yep, but without being too obvious to anyone else. Discreet is the word but for me it releases any tensions and stress or those few hours of playing. Making love making fun.
David x
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Kissme1973 - 10 Jun, 2025 - 12:58PM
We all want to be wanted and an affair hits many of the endorphins that we need. Just knowing that someone want you to kiss or touch them makes you feel worthwhile and sexy. I thought it was 1987 again!
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Dave 2025 - 10 Jun, 2025 - 10:23AM
I have been married twice and my experience with my first affair was yes it made me feel good , lively , a man again , however I also realised what was wrong in my marriage and decided my life could not stay as it was. Then my second wife who I love still , but has health issues both mentally and physically and has changed meaning I'm now missing that something special which we use to have (no fault of her doing) So finding that other person will give me that buzz ,it will mean a re balance of a quality back in my life... I am sure my experience(s) will be similar to many of you .
73forme - 10 Mar, 2024 - 03:35PM
Wow, I have never had one. True and faithful for 27 years. But now I feel the need, why is that?
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1654086 - 07 Mar, 2024 - 12:17PM
This is very interesting to read. Having the affair does not just hit sexual needs but it can be about intimacy, and connection. And showing up as your best self afterwards.
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