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1486372 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 02:16PM

Thank you 👍🏻👍🏻

1117169 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 08:12AM

@Paula99

That is very true.

It has been said that if a couple put a coin in a jar every time they have sex in the first 3 years of marriage then take one out every time after that, they never empty the jar.

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1489744 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 05:26AM

Watermelon777 - well I think it does depend on the type of person you are married to. We're both reasonably open minded. We were just chatting tbh with a few drinks and he said he was thinking humans aren't really made to be monogamous. We then got onto open marriage but stay together scenario, and we made a deal lol with rules. Though, I did have an open marriage before, and current husband was aware of that. Though that arrangement was only made because there were quite a few serious issues and I wanted to leave, which I did in the end. All I can say is you need to have a strong bond for it to work.

1486372 - 13 Dec, 2021 - 11:52PM

Honeybunny7 can I ask
how you went about talking to your hub?I don’t want to bugger it up. I would rather be here without the deceit

Paula99 - 12 Dec, 2021 - 07:08PM

To find a real connection/chemistry is amazing...but its rare to be in a loving marriage/partnership and have a fantastic sex life...

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1489744 - 10 Dec, 2021 - 12:58PM

Dominica - me and my husband had the chat very recently, we agreed whilst we were happy with the sex, we just don't want to do it with each other very often. We're just too comfortable with each other and, I'll say it, in a rut. So we agreed we can find it elsewhere for the excitement and buzz.

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Dominica - 08 Dec, 2021 - 05:31PM

I did cheat on my partner the person I met I have had best sex in my life but saying that I come to conclusion I don't enjoy sex with my partner. So I spoke to hem about it and we come to decision if we do open relationships as we both happy 80% in our lives and no point going and looking for 20% somewhere else and turning our lives upside-down. Now I can enjoy sex with whom I want , but is hard going finding the right person for it .

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Curvyebony777 - 06 Dec, 2021 - 01:43AM

Best time of my life. Too bad it ended all too fast

tomosim - 05 Dec, 2021 - 11:12PM

I guess we are all looking for human connection and how we get there varies. But being honest and straight is the way forward….rather than regret later on. Being free to be who we are and honest with that is such a great feeling with someone who mirrors with her feelings and honesty too. Simon xxx

Andyoxf - 05 Dec, 2021 - 09:59PM

I don't understand why some people think we need to lie if we have an affair. I'm certainly economical with the truth, but I try and stick to the truth as much as possible. And yes, I'm happier when I'm having an affair and I use this feeling to make life happy at home too.