A polite no?
So as I’m here looking for an IE lots of people spring up that I’m not physically attracted too, how do you let that person down without sounding horrible and blunt?
I’m a nice person and I find telling people you’re not my type really offensive so I end up ghosting them which is also bad but how else can I say it?
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1450235 - 30 Apr, 2021 - 11:57PM
I do look for pics first and soon because it doesnt prolong chats etc. Im honest but kind....some people just are not others types. I do think men become pickier than women though. I consider myself reasonably attractive and have been ghosted here by men I wasnt overly attracted to but said hey you arent bad.
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1436839 - 20 Apr, 2021 - 10:35PM
I would definitely give a polite reply if he’s been prepared to share his profile with you. We all realise that everyone has their own type.
For me ghosting is rude and impolite.
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1449137 - 20 Apr, 2021 - 08:49PM
You should try "Thank you for your picture, you seem nice but unfortunately i am not physically attracted to you" that seems to work for most...
Alternatively, point and laugh in there face, whilst making vomiting noises.
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1410680 - 23 Mar, 2021 - 09:40AM
There should be some sort of ghosting clause on here as it is so tiresome
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1422808 - 18 Mar, 2021 - 07:08PM
Sadly politeness is a rare thing on here. Its the right thing to do say no thank you unless the person asks you don't. I sometimes say at the dreaded password exchange moment no need to reply if im not for you. Makes it easier and no offence taken as its requested.
1442420 - 18 Mar, 2021 - 09:40AM
I agree with most replies, be honest and if you not physically attracted to someone then where do they actually think things will go.
I think just remaining silent is rude and if someone just tells me no thank you I kind of respect them more
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1367102 - 15 Mar, 2021 - 10:40AM
Just be honest with them.
1151610 - 14 Mar, 2021 - 10:29PM
Just honest ... I think a reply to say so is important. I get many “sorry you’re not my type” but I always reply with a thank for being honest. Everyone is seeking someone special, we can’t all be that person.
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1352755 - 13 Mar, 2021 - 11:04PM
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Let’s just do coffee and flirt 😜
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