How quickly can a meeting become sexual?
How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?
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Doubleohseven - 08 May, 2025 - 08:51PM
I have had IE 1st dates lasting 5 hours in which the mutual chemistry was definitely there, with plenty of passionate kissing (and no more than that). But I have never had sex on a first IE date, no matter how strong the temptation.
In all the instances when the 1st date was effervescent, the slow burn to date 2 or 3 would be sometimea intolerable, but the ensuing affair would last some time. It's as if that slow (and painful) wait had proven something to each other, and we were better off for it.
I am clarly old school, and proud of it.
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Stargazer9711 - 08 May, 2025 - 07:08PM
That’s exactly what them Hollywood movies teach us. Volcanic eruption down there from moment that first touch happens!! :-)
Runner6969 - 08 May, 2025 - 03:30PM
When the mood is right and the feeling is mutual and consensual. This can be as soon as the door shuts on your hotel room, or a few meets later....
It probably depends on what messages you have already exchanged on Telegram, lol.
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Lookingfortingle - 08 May, 2025 - 02:44PM
It shouldn't be any different really to any previous interactions you may have had? If it feels right, go with what you feel comfortable with. If you built a good connection online and when you meet in the flesh it still feels the same, then great. But shouldn't be any pressure from either person. And first time, let someone know where your are!
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TailInstinct - 03 May, 2025 - 02:05AM
From a make perspective I think it's best to ask always before any physical contact for the first time . A lot of people think that asking impedes spontaneity but I think asking is part of the seduction process if done the right way and part of foreplay.
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ExoticOrchid - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:55PM
The American term "making out" definitely sounds better!
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EmnEm123 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:41PM
SirraNek
Don't know about that here. Why do people need to be told the bleedin' obvious? 🤔
P99
What about a bit of 'how's your father'?
This may open a can of worms! 😀
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SirrahNek - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:31PM
EmnEm - I think it depends where you meet. If you’re in England (and I don’t know if this applies in Scotland) and you meet at a swimming pool or lido then you have to refer to it as heavy petting by law. Although then you’re not allowed to do it either.
Sometimes you just can’t win.
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Paula99 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 04:09PM
What expression should they use instead of ‘heavy petting ‘ ??……maybe ‘getting it on ‘ or having it off’…
Reminds me of Carry on films 😂😂😂
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