How quickly can a meeting become sexual?
How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?
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EmnEm123 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 03:44PM
For me it would be never if the person I was meeting used the term 'heavy petting.'
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Boxbot100 - 30 Apr, 2025 - 03:11PM
Don’t think you can put a timescale on this! I feel like if it happens it will do so naturally. Some people connect immediately and if feels right straight away…with others it can take time! It’s very much situational in my experience
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6foot3!! - 30 Apr, 2025 - 01:13PM
I suppose it all depends on the two individuals and what they expect. I’m guessing most people swap pics first to make sure they are attracted before the meet anyway?
SirrahNek - 29 Apr, 2025 - 10:36AM
Davidnormal is correct. Take it slowly, take nothing for granted. Above all, don’t be desperate - and if you’re expecting something on a first date then maybe you’re on the wrong site? Actually, if you want something on the first date then maybe visit De Wallen instead?
You need to establish that connection. Is your date connect with you, does she want the same things as you? I certainly wouldn’t expect intimacy, not first time out anyway. Not to say that it won’t happen, of course, but good things come to those who wait.
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Davidnormal - 29 Apr, 2025 - 10:16AM
No simple answer, it all depends on how it goes at the time. I would never take anything for granted and I'd expect to take things slowly. Plus you can chat as much as you like, but until you meet someone in real life it's impossible to say how strong the attraction is (or isn't). But there have been occasions when a genuine coffee date has unexpectedly led to scrabbling round to find the nearest available hotel room. You just don't know how it will go.
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enchanter - 26 Apr, 2025 - 09:46PM
A chance would be a fine thing for me. Been a few days as newbie but lots of fakes but if I did meet then would certainly want some intimacy on the first meet up. Even passionate kisses will be ok
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EmnEm123 - 25 Apr, 2025 - 06:48PM
@beware my love
You're contradicting yourself.
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Mrsx66 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 09:58PM
Well every first meeting I've had on IE it's been
Intimate in some way , so I guess it's all down to having that conection first
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beware my love - 24 Apr, 2025 - 09:11PM
When both like what they see hear and can not wait to touch
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