How quickly can a meeting become sexual?
How quickly should a meet move on to sexual contact, heavy petting inside clothing before full sex for example, and has anyne went to a meet with good intentions of not being too quick, and then got carried away with the excitement of the moment?
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Funguy77 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 04:35PM
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Dono but it’s definitely a numbers game probably a lot less than you think considering there’s only about 400 active women users and very little in Edinburgh I’m going to say les than 50 so I’ll take shin the dark and say odds are better than you think less than 50-1
Not accounting for my charm and charisma 😂
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Funguy77 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 04:05PM
Myself and my current IE meet on a Friday to scope each other out then we meet on the Saturday just for a coffee and a chat but two hours later we were in a day use hotel getting hot and sweaty. All good 👍
Paula99 - 24 Apr, 2025 - 03:41PM
I think the majority of members can say they have made the same mistake ( as above ) but how many can say that it turned into a proper affair 🤷🏻♀️
JessicaRampantRabbit - 24 Apr, 2025 - 02:23PM
If we’re meeting, we’re probably going to get it on…this is an affair site after all. Key is communication and making sure everyone knows what is acceptable x
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MutualFun99 - 22 Apr, 2025 - 09:56PM
I’m sure people do have intentions of not being too quick but then get carried away. And if that’s what both of the couple want that’s OK. However, taking things slowly, flirting, gentle touches and soft kisses can also be exciting as part of a longer sexual build up.
mysexysecret - 22 Apr, 2025 - 12:27PM
Paula99
I see your point and each to their own, i've never been one for ONS either. I'd find it odd meeting someone if there was no built up sexual chemistry and then resuming where you left off in person, over drinks, dinner etc and take things from there.
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Paula99 - 22 Apr, 2025 - 12:16PM
Mysexysecret…
People’s meets/dates are not like coffee (aka Instant )..few and far between come under that heading …the majority of times it ends up like a ONS which is generally unsatisfactory sex…I have to admit I have felt like ripping of his shirt but experience has taught me the next day you feel like 💩
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mysexysecret - 22 Apr, 2025 - 10:11AM
Personally, all the time and I'd be surprised if most peoples meets aren't somewhat instant, all that built up anticipation through messaging/chatting prior to meeting mixed in with the in person teasing adds to some fun times together!
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