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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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1593213 - 23 Apr, 2024 - 02:40PM

Personally I'd not be offended by this. In fact I'd go so far to suggest some flavoured lube to really spice things up


Purple dreamer - 22 Apr, 2024 - 08:10AM

Why not ask her the questions ?


Bobfun - 21 Apr, 2024 - 12:12PM

My hotel kit consists of condoms, lube, milk(there is never enough in the room), tea bags, lunch, soft drinks and an alarm clock just in case we fall asleep! We yse Dayuse hotels so have them from 9-6.

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Paula99 - 21 Apr, 2024 - 07:20AM

Medication continued….

The only issue I can see is if your lady is using HRT patches then you just need to make sure that they are not stuck on you when you go home to your wife/partner …

🫣😂

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Paula99 - 21 Apr, 2024 - 07:11AM

Can’t really work out why this would make anyone feel inadequate….its a solution to a problem…there is no disgrace whether you need headache pills …blue pills…muscle rub ..or any other medication that provides comfort to ease of symptoms…

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Suited 21 - 20 Apr, 2024 - 09:44PM

Nah saliva is better

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JuanPaulo - 20 Apr, 2024 - 09:13PM

Seems like a no brainer to me: everybody wants their partner to feel the best they can. So if lube helps, then lube it is.
As a man, I would not proactively bring lube, unless we've discussed about it. You ladies know better if you might need some, if you prefer with or if you hope for bum play. Hell no I would not be offended if a lady came prepared for both of us to enjoy!


NinaOakley - 20 Apr, 2024 - 08:14PM

Worth mentioning the use of lube could make women feel inadequate, dry, shrivelled crones too. A new lover of either sex is going to need kindness and reassurance.

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Toffee.macchiato4 - 20 Apr, 2024 - 04:55PM

Hahahaha
This question made me laugh 😆 I enjoyed everyone’s responses on this
My two pennies worth
Two adult seeking mutual pleasure with both parties consenting. Off course lube, toys and whatever else they deem appropriate.
Presumably they’ve talked about what they both want to do with eachother.
So hey 👋 ho crack on I say 👍


merchant12 - 20 Apr, 2024 - 03:43PM

How about get to know the person first? Chat about it possibly in a light hearted way?

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