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1579641 - 26 Feb, 2023 - 12:32PM

I’m wondering if women actually search the site for a man at all, I’ve never had a message or even a profile view without me making the first move, or maybe it’s just me and my profile not attracting anyone 🤓

Redfirefox - 26 Feb, 2023 - 12:31PM

Intoxicate
Yes that’s generally the feedback I’ve read or heard. But first things first for me. To find a regular ie partner(s) first. That’s my first priority
As someone already said ‘the rest will follow’…

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Delicious Chaos - 26 Feb, 2023 - 12:06PM

Redfirefox
You’re right, I definitely don’t have time for the woman who thinks she might be bi, go onto a site more suited to that, once you’ve popped your cherry and it’s something you like you can then go on and find the more experienced women. I’ve found a lot of women who want to explore their bi side do it because of their bloke 🙄

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Redfirefox - 26 Feb, 2023 - 12:01PM

@Beckysharp
Sorry I don’t get you… who’s left? Naughty Jason?
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Thanks Lorelai - I find women generally don’t have time or patience for the bi-curious as I’ve never actually done it before but I think you advice is sound. When there is a will there’s a way.
I’ve just reached that time in my life where I want to ‘live’ a little more. Explore my sexuality. Be more than a wife, partner, mother etc.
I’m too highly sexed to be put on the shelf. These last 4 years have been killing me 😭

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1408586 - 26 Feb, 2023 - 11:46AM

@LG

We’re sisters with an extra mister 😂

I do know what you mean. Nice to hear others are like us. Both men and women. I had some great convos with CP he was very similar in lots of ways

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1447655 - 26 Feb, 2023 - 11:30AM

I honestly felt like such a freak for so long, to be run on desire and lust like I am and seeing other women here that love that world too (and not in marriage, which in my mind is death to sex) was totally and completely liberating and empowering for me! I'd longed to talk to other women who loved sex too!

There are ways Redfirefox. You could ask a nice, understanding, trustworthy male contact to give them your kik address or whatever. It's a leap of faith though! You could find a fabulous female friend - or whatever it is you seek.

I know most people say "I'm not looking for friends" - and all respect to them. I love my rl friends, but none of them are remotely interested in sex! I really get a lot out of my platonic mates from here...(as well as the non platonic ones, obvs) 😊

1408586 - 26 Feb, 2023 - 11:05AM

@RFF I appreciate he’s left etc (hopefully he met someone!). But to me his profile is saying exactly that. He wants someone out of his league 😉

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Delicious Chaos - 26 Feb, 2023 - 10:49AM

Redfirefox
Well that ain’t going to happen is it, there’s no money in that.
You just got to think outside the box if that’s what you’re wanting to do

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Redfirefox - 26 Feb, 2023 - 10:38AM

@Kitten 55
Females are unable to message females on here if your preferences are male.
I’ve tried adding you as a favourite/messaging you but it’s not permitted.
This is certainly something IE should consider for the bi-sexual or bi-curious amongst us looking for mff.

Redfirefox - 26 Feb, 2023 - 10:20AM

@ naughty Jason

Ok.
I will start by saying that I applaud you for putting time and effort into composing your profile. That in itself deserves recognition.

So for me personally, my our life & commitments doesn’t permit me to be quite as ‘buff’ , or as physically active as you seem to be. This section of your profile is dedicated to how active you are and the words ‘junkie’ ‘adrenaline’ etc seem a bit much.
Don’t get me wrong there will be ladies that will be looking for someone like you with that kind of physical prowess but for the rest of us, we want someone within our reach.
I would look at your profile and find you (regardless of how we look) out of my league.

Second point is please please put as much effort into including what is your type and preferences. DON’T leave it blank. You will have a type. Think about what to put in that section that will encourage women of your type to feel confident enough to approach you or reply to you.

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