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Double Dippers

You meet someone here, start dating them, build the connection, but then see them still active on here... Yet they reassure you that they are absolutely into you, that everything is perfect, that you are the woman of their dreams. If you aren't sure they will be the one, create a backup of a backup, pause and think... How fair is that?I have ghosts upon ghosts returning, wondering why I abruptly ended dating. I value myself and know what I have to offer, and that is an exclusive and absolutely fantastic affair. I refuse to settle for double dippers.

Any one else agree?

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Delicious Chaos - 24 Jun, 2022 - 05:55PM

Teper

Take note there’s a lot of cra cras on here 😁

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1444888 - 24 Jun, 2022 - 10:04AM

I met a women once in a hotel cafe for a drink. We got on well and the futured looked promising. We had not had the exclusivity chat yet, and I noted that she was still logging in here as was I. I then get a message saying I was chatting to others (for the record I wasn't but enjoy reading the posts on here) and she blocked me....!!

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1237390 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 11:02PM

It’s not being up front with you and it’s in truthful. Dosnt matter how you cut it or what the reasons. They are on a high and confident because of what they have with you. Some people will say don’t get emotionally envolved but connections and great intimacy relies on emotions.

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1528487 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 08:49PM

I don’t think that it is fair to tell him what you expect him to do.


pumpkindovey - 23 Jun, 2022 - 08:22PM

Is there any honour among thieves? I suppose when you start down the road of infidelity you have to accept that you may reap what you sow. If you can't accept this then perhaps you never really perceived the original infidelity as morally acceptable and you should stop altogether for your own peace of mind.

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Paula99 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 08:03PM

BH764...

I went to the loo and left ..🤣

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1494077 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 07:05PM

P99
When that happens, I feel like Aunt Aggy. An ex-IE still whinges to me about his spouse. I guess I know the story and can spare some time for him.
But if a man just starts off slagging his wife on the date, I agree, he is definitely twat material. Cheque please!

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Delicious Chaos - 23 Jun, 2022 - 06:54PM

Near wild heaven

And that is fair enough


1382700 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 06:47PM

SV. 22

Yeh why not. I wasn’t taking the moral high ground was just responding to some of the ladies who said there must be some men who don’t cheat


Paula99 - 23 Jun, 2022 - 06:33PM

This is my take on this 'resent my wife' topic..

I went on a date with a GP...we started chatting at the coffee bar...his whole conversation was 'me me me'...he constantly griped about his wife (she was a doctor)...
He wasn't a skinny guy to say the least but he winged about how much weight his wife had put on and that he didn't fancy her anymore...
...total arsehole..
I don't go on a date to listen to guys slagging off their wives/partners...
I must admit that is only one I have ever come accross ...😕

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