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1585430 - 26 Mar, 2023 - 11:39AM

I've said my views on distance before on here but I'm ultimately realistic.... a 2 hour trip just doesn't fit if it was just for a quickie but with a plush hotel booked for the night waiting at the other end then it takes on a different aura.
Obviously it depends on overnight availability (or at least a late-pass til the small hours) to make it work, or if you were planning seeing them 7 days a week it'd be ridiculous, but that's a different question about regularity.... when does an IE cross the line and become just dating? surely that negates the whole attraction of a secret liaison??

ExoticOrchid - 26 Mar, 2023 - 10:38AM

IYM - 10:27AM

What if they are left handed? 🤔🤣

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Delicious Chaos - 26 Mar, 2023 - 10:27AM

I don’t think distance matters to men. Most are quite happy engaging in dirty chat and their right hand…you don’t need to travel for that

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1408586 - 26 Mar, 2023 - 10:12AM

I met a guy for a drink off here once who regularly travels between highlands and Oxford! But not for meets (as far as I’m aware!). We are still in touch and he sends me lovely photos of the northern lights/whales etc 😊

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Enigma.. - 26 Mar, 2023 - 09:53AM

@TheBoredHousewife

Pmsl….

It takes me about 45mins plus to travel from Ayr to Glasgow by train.

I get messages through, practically on a daily basis, from men living in London. That’s a 7.5 hours drive!?! Lol.

I want to meet someone who I can actually have a relationship with 🤷🏼‍♀️

Not spend most of my time and money on travelling. Seriously!?! Get real guy’s 😂

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1494077 - 26 Mar, 2023 - 09:02AM

I don’t think I’d be able to hack a 2 hour return journey each way, let alone an hour (absolute maximum, and only on occasion). But I once met with a guy who said his Ex travelled from the Highlands to meet him in London…..weekly!

Obviously utter hogwash. But hey, whatever it takes to get a lay, just don’t make it so obvious 😏

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1408586 - 26 Mar, 2023 - 07:57AM

I’m moving to London too if/when I have to start looking again! I have noticed that London guys rarely travel out of London for meets as they have so many options in the city lucky gits 😂

I guess the rest of us will have to stick to travelling or waiting to find someone local. I’m impressed that some people travel 2 hours (each way?!) regularly though!! That’s dedication!!! I can’t imagine getting that to work for me

What’s the furthest you’ve travelled quixotic?

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1529050 - 25 Mar, 2023 - 07:49PM

Enigma.. - 25 Mar, 2023 - 06:40PM

We’d make you welcome 🤗

Enigma.. - 25 Mar, 2023 - 06:40PM

@FerarriFF

I’m thinking of moving to the London area.
It seems that’s where most members live and where all the action, lol, is…. 😉.

Sneaking around!?! I just want to meet someone who can actually meet up lol 😂

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Enigma.. - 25 Mar, 2023 - 06:31PM

@Dotty Green

I’ve had 2 wonderful affairs from this site.

Unfortunately a lot of male members can’t do day time meets…. Well in my area.
Not available during the day. They can meet for a couple of hours in the evening. When I’m not available.
Weekends they can do Saturday during the day but not in the evening and are not available on Sundays. I sometimes work on a Saturday and I’m available Saturday evenings and Sundays.

It’s so frustrating.

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