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1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 09:15AM

Enigma.. - 24 Mar, 2023 - 07:08AM

I have had a lot of different meets - my first long term IE - we met day times, afternoons into evenings, over nights, and weekend away..... (it went on for a few years)

Since then my meets have been day times (all day - not just a lunch time quickie that is not for me), normally between 3 and 4 weeks and for me that works out just well, I know this would not be acceptable to some.

For me it is the planning then the excitement of the meet, choosing our hotel, planning nice food and wine and of course for me nice lingerie.... then close the door and have our fun shutting the world away.

We can meet up for coffee/lunch/drink in between meets which is nice too.

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1587581 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 08:29AM

Enigma-

The flip side to that is I can come and go as I want, yet I'm finding that puts more off than it attracts. There's simply no/not enough jeopardy to make the affair feel "illicit" enough.

It seems the sneaking about to some is the most important part of the entire arrangement.

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Enigma.. - 24 Mar, 2023 - 07:08AM

Unfortunately a lot of men work Monday to Friday 9 - 5. This usually means they cannot meet during week day’s. Unless, of course, their job allows them to get out and about.

Like most female members on the site, I should imagine, my first question is…

When and how often can you meet up?

If they can’t do week day meetings or are restricted over the weekend… then it’s a no from me.

What’s the point in forking out money, to be on the site, for a few weeks when you can only meet once a month or less 🤷🏼‍♀️.

Biggest issue I have on here… 🙄

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1529050 - 24 Mar, 2023 - 06:19AM

Miss Chief 76 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:28PM

I don’t think Paula was saying she’s a newbie - her question/statement was for newbies to get their take on the whole distance thing. I guess the job was because in other posts on this thread people have mentioned people who travel with their work … ie might not live in your area but are a regular visitor…

I definitely agree with you about availability … that needs to work - for example if someone wanted a weekly meet that wouldn’t work for me. I’m definitely not that interested in work/home life - our time together should just be about us.

And it’s finally Friday !!

1585430 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:32PM

Not wishing to turn this into a pissing competition but I regularly did a hundred mile commute into work the morning after. I was like the milk tray man by leaving her with a smile on her face before speeding off at daybreak. It always helps when you're an early riser though.....

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chris19389 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 10:16PM

@rhondda ronin how far did your partner go for you?

Paula99 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 08:08PM

Miss chief..

It’s just a…ice breaker ..who knows what others think ….. just food for thought ?

By the way ..you’re not new to this ..😊😊

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1588499 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:54PM

It's getting hot in here 🥵

Delicious Chaos - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:50PM

MC 76

Spot on girl 👍

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1483842 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 06:28PM

Paula99 - 23 Mar, 2023 - 03:17PM

You? A newbie? Ha. If being on here for 15 years or so makes me an old hat so be it.

As for a mans profession, I don't care. I ask 3 questions at the start of any potentials. This is so I can establish compatibility.

Availability Expectations Boundaries.

The Availability question is the most important at the very beginning. If a gent doesn't match my availability then it's game over. His job is none of my business and doesn't even come into having an affair. If we can both meet for that amount of time then what does his job have to do with it?

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