Distance & IEs
How do you feel about the distance between you and a potential IE? For example, I receive messages from men who live in other parts of the country but travel with work to my area. Personally, it makes me feel like they're looking for a hook up in every port they travel to. Is it better that they live in your county or the next? Can an affair be better and more fulfilling the nearer the person lives?
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1586837 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 10:54PM
Yeah,my thoughts excatly...it will be exactly same situation why you are on here in first place,once every 2/3 months at the best....than said that I wouldn't want someone too close(found someone actually on here from same small town as me) only my fecking luck 🤣
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Redfirefox - 21 Mar, 2023 - 10:32PM
I don’t see the point in debating about this topic when we are all from a variety of backgrounds and everyone wants different things from their illicit encounter(s).
I might want one ie guy from somewhere within half an hour of travel to meet frequently or I might want 2+ guys from further afield to meet with alternately. There’s loads of variations.
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1583535 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:56PM
If, like me you want to be an old fashioned mistress, then yes, I believe close proximity is important.
I guess it all depends on who wants what? x
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Free Spirit 2802 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:16PM
In an ideal world, close but not too close would be the most preferable logistics.
1583208 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 09:08PM
Paula 99,
The doctor will see you now 😁
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Paula99 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 08:28PM
AlexB7
Maybe you’re thinking about Carry on Doctor/Matron…😂😂😂
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chris19389 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 08:17PM
Yes, finding that local special person seems like the hardest thing. It is a shame - but I get why - people include wrong or useless location information in their summaries. "Home" etc.
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1583208 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 08:12PM
Context is everything isn't it? I live in a rural area so has to be at least an hour away. I do travel occasionally for work, and as I'm an affair not hook up guy, freedom of distance enables the holding of hands, eat meals, cinema..all the datey stuff not just playing doctors and nurses 😁
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Paula99 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 06:53PM
The distance brings complications and it didn’t work for me even though it lasted ..but as time moved on it the once a month became one every 2 months before long it became six months etc etc ..family constraints other issues ..work got in the way.. and you have to be realistic about the travel time as it reduces the ‘hotel’ time..
It’s not practical and for those who have experienced it you will understand fully ….like most of the ladies here the ‘work traveller ‘ dosen’t sync with me because the meets won’t be enough ..once every 2 months in Cheshire isn’t good and they forget it’s a large area to cover😂😂😂😂
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1483842 - 21 Mar, 2023 - 06:35PM
It doesn't make me feel like there is a woman in every port. However, so what of there is? I change my location to areas I'm willing to travel to open the pool of talent. Unless you are looking for a exclusive relationship when you are both attached which really doesn't make sense either. We only live once, as long as we keep our beloveds and ourselves safe, whats the issue? If you want to shit on your own door step I'd suggest you relook at what you really want.
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