Distance & IEs
How do you feel about the distance between you and a potential IE? For example, I receive messages from men who live in other parts of the country but travel with work to my area. Personally, it makes me feel like they're looking for a hook up in every port they travel to. Is it better that they live in your county or the next? Can an affair be better and more fulfilling the nearer the person lives?
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Paula99 - 20 Sep, 2023 - 02:34PM
I have made many posts about distance and however much spin you put on it …it only works if you have the connection/chemistry and the extra 10 % commitment ..
Lots of factors determine your affair …family ..work ..kids …I have experienced a distance affair and it it’s not easy ..if the person you want to see inspires you/ is a friend/ confidant and makes your Fanny flutter then the mountain comes to Mohammed..
It’s a personal choice .😂😂😂
Be safe ❤️
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1612345 - 20 Sep, 2023 - 08:32AM
I enjoyed a 11-year affair because my inamorata lived 15 minutes away. We could have lunch and make love up to 3 days a week. Evenings out were also possible. She was partnered with another man, but they lived apart, so she could 'host' or 'accommodate' me at her flat.
I don't think our affair would have lasted longer than many marriages had it not been for this - and our proximity. Few middle-aged, middle-class married men with a mortgage to pay and a pension to fund can afford daytime hotel meets, a decent meal out plus movie, drinks and so on more than once or twice a month - if that - and not create a suspicious hole in the family finances. So the relationship becomes a series of brief encounters - maybe 12 per year? Could be enough for some romantics, but surely most would find that situation more frustrating than fulfilling.
Banal but true: one lover's ability to host – and the proximity between both parties – are crucial factors in any successful liaison. And honestly? I suspect that's pretty
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1494077 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 08:19PM
Come back soon Enigma. Love your posts 😘
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Dadbod47 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 05:44PM
I’d rather have someone who likes me and wants to be with me on those special days together. Distance shouldn’t come into it.
If you are local it’s just there no effort needed.
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Enigma.. - 19 Sep, 2023 - 02:39PM
But I’ll be back… 😉
I’m not going to let some lying male fannie get me down.
Besides he’d better beware.
Hopefully his profile will be taken down soon.
No refund 😏😉😂
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1447655 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 02:27PM
Enigma - goodluck celtic goddess. Its a bloody pity you're stranded up there. x
1408586 - 19 Sep, 2023 - 02:13PM
What a shame Enigma you will be missed!
I’m planning to use the report button much more if needed in the future. It’s not right some of the low level stuff that we just eye roll rather than report
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