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Paula99 - 16 Sep, 2023 - 06:21PM

Meeting an old lover is like trying on a pair of comfy slippers …you never forget and surprisingly how quickly it all comes flooding back..especially if your relationship was long term..the emotions can be high…😘

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1574142 - 16 Sep, 2023 - 02:58PM

I had a very long affair with someone who lived nearby. The person then moved abroad After 2 years they came home for a visit and we met up. Amazing how it was still there.

Mellen1974 - 13 Sep, 2023 - 08:26PM

I enjoy going a distance to have a meet ... Knowing what I'm driving away from home to do and also be somewhere I can relax enough in someone elses company to not be recognized. To book a hotel room to get showered and pampered and dress in something sexy for the arrival of the man invited. Eager for his touch and kiss ... Distance from home helps get my head into the space of enjoying making my fantasy real. 😜

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Enigma.. - 11 Sep, 2023 - 10:35PM

I get messages through from males who have as their location “Glasgow”.
So we start messaging on the site and I quickly discover that they don’t actually live in Glasgow but miles away from the city.
I’ve asked several of these males why put Glasgow as their location when they actually don’t live there?
It’s always the same answer.
Lack of or no active females anywhere near them.
I find I am having to cast my net wider, county wise, to find someone suitable.
At this rate…. If I look any further north I’ll be fishing about the North Sea.
Any further south I’ll be over the border.
I’d put lol after both those sentences but, unfortunately, it’s no longer funny.

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1614937 - 11 Sep, 2023 - 07:24PM

I'm fascinated by this debate. On the one hand, people a worried about "being seen" if they meet locally. For me, the worry is about spending too much time away and raising suspicions at home!

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logicboy - 11 Sep, 2023 - 05:14PM

Given where I live and the lack of appropriate suitors I have been scanning a little further afield. For me, I'm 100% up for travelling the distance for an initial fairly platonic meet up (dinner or drinks) to see if there is a strong connection. And if there is then take it from there...

I think the distance from home takes away any anxiety in terms of discretion and presume that if there's a strong connection then a little planning and travelling is a price worth paying for a fulfilling affair.

Having said that the majority of feedback I'm getting is that I live too far away...

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1620254 - 11 Sep, 2023 - 02:01PM

Meeting half way could be interesting if half way was a public park.

laugar164 - 11 Sep, 2023 - 09:43AM

Paula99 I travel with work and normally stay over in hotels
I had a long affair with a fabulous lady from Bolton we chat most days and out meets we're electric
Shame it had to finish

Shoutout - 11 Sep, 2023 - 09:36AM

Living nearer does makes things easier, but I think we are also aware if the old adage 'Don't s**t on your own doorstep' especially when discretion is working to successful encounters...

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Enigma.. - 10 Sep, 2023 - 12:53PM

Suddenly I’ve got “The Proclaimers” song singing in my head… 😃😉

“Well I will walk 500 miles” etc…

Me! Travel 500 miles??

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