When should you end it?
So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.
Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!
Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!
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Fintimes1976 - 01 Jul, 2024 - 03:31PM
Why is that when a woman looks at your profile after you’ve sent them a message not a VK , you don’t get a reply , even a “not for me thanks” would be good just so I know to move on as I don’t do having lots of chats on the go at the same time ,I’m a man and obviously can’t multi task , apart from certain ttimes
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YourSecretLover - 01 Jul, 2024 - 02:03PM
I've never had this issue, maybe I'm lucky, but, we both agree, and agree to move on, a grown up but polite conversation, usually ending with a final fling of bed gymnastics.
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mogordon - 30 Jun, 2024 - 07:41PM
I’ve had this experience. The partner in question stopped being a girlfriend after a few months and became a once a week “fuck buddy” who had to rush off for “work commitments” etc. before finally ending it. Definitely a sign of a relationship in trouble.
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Entry fun - 20 Jun, 2024 - 09:57AM
The sex is actually important. Leave if you’re not feeling the vibe anymore
Sportygirl99 - 17 Jun, 2024 - 08:53PM
Yes end it as soon as the excitement to meet is no longer there !
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FluffyClouds - 17 Jun, 2024 - 04:33PM
If you no longer feel excited about seeing them, end it. It's become mundane and like a chore.
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Paula99 - 17 Jun, 2024 - 03:10PM
One more thing…
If the sex leaves you feeling unsatisfied….look elsewhere 😂
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Paula99 - 17 Jun, 2024 - 03:09PM
You should end it when…
1….when it becomes complicated and it spills into your own life.
2…when you find it difficult to meet up with endless cancellations.
3…when you stop looking forward to your meets.
4… when your circumstances change at home/work.
5…if your partner finds out.
6…if you suspect someone who knows your partner has seen you with your affair.
7…If it’s making you unhappy.
8… If you can’t stand the guilt.
9..If one of you wants more than the other can give.
10…If you are in a situation where your affair is abusing his/her power.
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1669370 - 17 Jun, 2024 - 03:00PM
When the fun stops, stop
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EbonyDesires - 17 Jun, 2024 - 01:25PM
I guess when you start the affair you need to be clear what style of affair you are wanting. That sets the boundaries. Then if it changes you are clear it’s time to go.
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