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Cheryl Kim - 17 May, 2025 - 09:21AM

DramaFree&Easy

The same type of photos every day, with the same words. It’s as if it’s 9am, and picture distribution time to all and sundry. Not that I mind, nor complaining. I am just saying it is unnecessary.

Btw it is easy to catfish, even with multiple photos. Sending multiple photos doesn’t guarantee a meet either. Anybody who knows me will know that I am no prude, but it is obvious when they want to see more and more, that a proper meet in person, for genuine affair partner making purposes, is the last thing on their minds.

Paula99 - 17 May, 2025 - 07:46AM

Drama and easy…..ooops sorry free

So you think that sending lots of pictures every day is going to get the other person more interested?…to me it just proves that you don’t care about discretion and in my experience it leads to more ‘definitive ‘ images ..
Why should I stake my privacy on some random guy who was clearly sharing his body pictures with other woman ….I call that reckless..

As Cheryl Kim says all those images are unnecessary

Remember images are never deleted and the less of me on the internet the better..

Enigma.. - 17 May, 2025 - 06:52AM

Two days ago I received a message from a male location West Yorkshire saying we had messaged before and he was still waiting for my photo password!?! 🤷🏼‍♀️.
I messaged back that he had the wrong lady and why would I be interested in someone from Yorkshire when I live in Ayrshire, Scotland and I won’t be sending him my photo password for that reason.
I thought it was rather odd 🫤.
He messaged back saying that I had demanded his photo password 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️🤣.
Total crap as I don’t ask, never mind demand, male members for their passwords.
I prefer to wait until said male member ask’s first.
I was left with the impression that he was yet another picture collector hoping to land lucky and get a few titillating screen shots.
The lengths certain males will go to now… desperation indeed 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️😏😂l

KerryElizabeth - 17 May, 2025 - 06:01AM

If comfortable with someone, I'm happy to swap phone numbers so we can text. Most information I keep fairly vague, such as where I live, work, surname. I have previously had a stalker, so initially I am cautious.

DramaFree&Easy - 17 May, 2025 - 12:32AM

@Cheryl Kim

At least he was consistent.. was it at all reassuring to know that the person you were messaging looked like the person you eventually met with? I once had the awkward experience of meeting someone from a dating app that had shared less than recent pictures of their self, at least 10 years past. The difference was startlingly obvious.

Life is a beach - 17 May, 2025 - 12:13AM

Keep your personal information close to you.
Once you have built a relationship with your IE, I can't see anything wrong if you want to share more details.
Be very careful at the beginning and proceed with caution on your affair.

FunDate - 16 May, 2025 - 11:30PM

Having had enough stalkers in my life I am very protective of my privacy and I make it clear that I will take my time revealing who I am.

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Cheryl Kim - 16 May, 2025 - 08:36PM

I used to get sent a photo every day from an IE. Same style of photo - a selfie from his car after work. Tbf, they were nice selfies, and we did meet, but on hindsight, they were rather unnecessary.

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laugar164 - 16 May, 2025 - 07:31PM

Dream free and easy
There's more to starting a relationship then just pictures it takes patience understanding to develop a relationship that's going to work and last

DramaFree&Easy - 16 May, 2025 - 07:19PM

@Paula99

Why only 1 pic? If you’ve revealed your image then what difference does another pic or two make?

Someone I was chatting with on here a while ago started asking for pictures of me at work etc throughout the day.. I wasn’t keen on that tbh. However, I lose interest if I’m receiving minimal conversation and no photos to create intrigue.