Needle in a Haystack
It's my first time trying anything like this and having looked at a lot of ladies profiles I'm beginning to think that I'm a niche bloke.
Not being 6feet tall, gym going or smart dressing seems to put me in the "get in the sea" category with many.
Have any other "niche" blokes had success finding ladies who take them as they are?
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LogicalFlirt - 26 Apr, 2024 - 09:22PM
I think you have to be honest what you want from this as a fella. I am exactly as you self describe. I want or expect nothing and am not bothered either way to be fair. If I get some interesting convo then great but I have 0 expectations otherwise.. If something comes from it fine.... But let's not hold high hopes. A bit of time waiting for sure. But I'll look after me otherwise
Aspire5725 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 08:39PM
I think it's more like looking for a needle in a field of haystacks. But once you have found your haystack you have a good chance. However all the stars need to align to find the right partner. There may be a slight compromise here and there but if you gell with someone that's all that matters.
It's worse when you have built a good rapport with someone, then you swap photos and woosh the are gone.
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1643275 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 08:30PM
I wouldn't mind meeting a female who was a little more edgy or unique, whether that be in looks, tattoos, or attitude etc.
1660660 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 08:07PM
This is actually pretty funny!
Hearing about some of the bad behaviour on here, I did wonder how successful one might be in finding someone. I’m sat here eating my popcorn having heard the bell ring. 🤣
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Enigmatic Lady - 26 Apr, 2024 - 06:55PM
@EmnEm123
Well I’ve managed to get through life as a manager for nearly thirty years without being “grammatically” corrected.
Seems you are the only one who is complaining.
Ps…. I’m Glaswegian too 😘
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EmnEm123 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 04:51PM
Enigmatic Lady
You may want to re read your last post, it's littered with spelling and grammatical errors!
I understand English perfectly well, Glaswegian or not! 😘
Bacchus111 - 26 Apr, 2024 - 04:12PM
There was a time when women were expected to do nothing but take care of themselves and look good. Being intelligent and being in a better job than their partner were considered negative traits. For ages women wanted to be seen as people and not just objectified. The saying that blonds have more fun is really saying those women prepared to change their behaviour/looks to attract men have richer pickings.
It seems that we are now the ones objectified so if you meet the criteria then you will 'have more fun' but statistically that means that those who don't meet that criteria will have significantly less opportunity to meet any women.
So maybe the best way to get the type of women your looking for is to go to the gym, earn more money. pay for growth hormones and lighten the colour of your skin.
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