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Needle in a Haystack

It's my first time trying anything like this and having looked at a lot of ladies profiles I'm beginning to think that I'm a niche bloke.
Not being 6feet tall, gym going or smart dressing seems to put me in the "get in the sea" category with many.
Have any other "niche" blokes had success finding ladies who take them as they are?

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Lightmyfire936 - 01 May, 2024 - 09:46PM

Needle

I've been here before and had a couple of long term relationships.

My recommendation is that you get on line after a few pints at the pub, or after polishing off a decent bottle of red. In my case that means I'm at my funniest and flirtiest. Demonstrating you have a sense of humour overcomes the strictest of requirements in the profiles


Bon chance!


1447655 - 01 May, 2024 - 08:57PM

I agree, Peaches.

I had assumed everyone was looking for something in real life on here, but then realised that virtual jollies are specifically all some people are here for. It's convienient and risk free without meeting, I guess? It's not what I was looking for when i was looking, but if there was 'virtual on-line fun' in the 'what are you looking for' categories it would help members filter accordingly.

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1665613 - 01 May, 2024 - 08:37PM

Hi I totally new to this but can’t wait to get to know a girl and start something
I am excited on what will happen
I definitely reply straight away


1596886 - 01 May, 2024 - 07:38PM

🏳🏳🏳


Steelblueyes77 - 01 May, 2024 - 05:05PM

Sorry pal .. unless you have the physical attributes of a Stud Stallion, a mind like a University professor, plus the wit of a comedian media platform you will be struggling ...But ....there is hope. I am not so well endowed ...apart from mental capacity also not a slob couch potato, but... A few years ago I met a wonderful lady who I loved to bits and still do ...We had to part because of circumstances out with our control and it broke my heart.. Getting back in the saddle is essential.. keep trying and be yourself ..

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1408586 - 01 May, 2024 - 04:39PM

@bumbercatch77 you posted this:

One of the things I find hard to deal with is the lack of feedback, I know ladies say they get a lot of messages but it doesn’t take all that long just to send a reply saying no thank you. When there is just no response or even a blocking you don’t know what you’ve done to deserve it.

Surely you can understand what Paula99 has posted! Obviously women aren’t going to reply no thanks to that sort of profile, I’m not surprised you got blocked!

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1331250 - 01 May, 2024 - 02:33PM

Peaches1 - yes, “people” I should have said.

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Peaches1 - 01 May, 2024 - 02:18PM

Ted.E.Bare - 01 May, 2024 - 01:30PM

Trust me there are alot of men too that have no intention of meeting. About 75% of messages have been off people way above my age range or miles away. Maybe people should stick to specifications and they may not get rejected.

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clarendon1002 - 01 May, 2024 - 02:08PM

Many of the womens profiles are in the london area and all seem very tempting but why do they bother when Ilive in Leeds.Itis a complete no go


1331250 - 01 May, 2024 - 01:30PM

I think there are women on this site who have little intention of meeting up but get their kicks out of rejecting you, which was likely always their intention. It’s probably ones who’ve had a lot of rejection themselves in their lives and now they feel “in control” or something. It’s a bit sad really, but that’s their issue, so just ignore that and keep going, your (real) IE is out there!

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