Should I or shouldn’t I?
Hi, my wife and are still very much in love and are actually still having good sex but we both feel there’s a little something missing. So, we have just recently started an open relationship and we’ve both newly joined IE in the last couple of weeks or so. We’re both looking for quite different things from IE but obviously ultimately it comes down to wanting to get intimate with someone other than each other.
My wife seems to be getting loads of attention but me, not so much.
My question is, do you think the fact that I’ve mentioned in my profile about being in an open relationship is putting a lot of ladies off.
Should I not mention it? Or is it something else?
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secretlover4me - 04 Jul, 2024 - 11:53AM
Wouldn't you both both be better joining a swinging site together then you meet like minded people and it wouldn't be so one sided as I would agree that genuine women on here are probably swamped with emails etc
Slimguy321 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 10:20AM
There are many many guys for every genuine lady on IE so don't be surprised if you're not successful. You're wife won't have the same problem - just speaking from personal experience though. I wish you luck.
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Aim to please48 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 10:10AM
The main reason for the open relationship is because my wife want’s a much more dominant side to sex, think of it as she wants her own Mr Grey.
She knows I’m not that person, that’s not me and to try and pretend to be that way doesn’t/wont work.
1671533 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 09:55AM
I would imagine the thought that you might still be having good sex with your wife is a turn off. If she told me she was still having sex, I wouldn't be interested, as I wouldn't be able to feel as intimate, or feel she might be comparing me with you, or even sharing notes. On the other hand, a threesome or foursome would change the dynamics and make it much more interesting for everyone ;)
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1683755 - 04 Jul, 2024 - 09:48AM
I just think that the ratio is that there are more guys on here than ladies, everyone is on this site for the same reason effectively.
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