Tall Dark and Handsome (TDH)
Most of the lasses are searching for the elusive "Tall, Dark and Handsome (TDH) bloke". Plus they want him to be humorous, rich, flashy cars, amazing holidays, brilliant shopping trips and lasting in bed until cows come home! I understand that if you want to dream and demand then might as well go for the sky. But are you missing the trick here? Are you discounting genuine gentlemen who might be average looking but are great human beings? They might not have six packs and"Arnold muscles", but they can be sensitive and humorous and probably great in bed as well?
So my quick question - if physical attributes are a mismatch + you want to keep the whole thing a secret affair then how much does those "physical features" matter to you? Is your end goal not to have a great time whenever you meet? Each lass over here probably has around at least 20 lads chasing her and probably she can afford to be choosy ... but does it really work out?
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Daniel57 - 12 Sep, 2024 - 02:33PM
It's a bit like Putin's Russia. No unfavourable comments allowed. So silly old IE - you're missing some quite valuable feedback...
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1695407 - 12 Sep, 2024 - 01:41PM
I’ve been using this site on & off for about 6 years. I leave it between 6-12 months or if an affair finishes before I come back. Unless a lot of women follow the same pattern as me, I see the same usernames, all with hidden profiles. I wonder as ladies don’t pay to be “active members” is it just an ego boost for them having guys chase them, with no intention of an affair?
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Enigma.. - 12 Sep, 2024 - 11:01AM
@NinaOakley
Does your Ie have a brother? 😉 (joke).
My profile is the same no mention of type, height, wealth etc…
Unlike most women tall, dark and handsome does nothing for me.
But… I do like men who are emotionally intelligent, intelligent, are mannered and have a good sense of humour.
Oh! And sensuality is a must 😊😉.
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NinaOakley - 12 Sep, 2024 - 06:51AM
Absolutely nowhere in my profile does it say I’m after any particular physical features or material wealth! If I were to put stipulations in there it would be hygienic and solvent.
I’m afraid I’m taken but my IE is remarkable because of his intelligence, humour and sensuality!
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EmnEm123 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 10:46PM
Be as picky as you want to be. If others want to settle for anything leave them to it!
Not sure where all this flash cars and holidays garage is coming from though?
Plus, this is just a rehash of a previous thread
SparkSeeker - 11 Sep, 2024 - 06:20PM
I sort of say live and let live. Personally, I'm not the checklist/cookie cutter sort of person. For me, as I suspect with others, there are avoids and then there needs to be some spark of attraction from photo and profile (and anyone who uses profile generator is just out for me 🤣? If someone came at me with that list I'd just ignore it.
Delicious Chaos - 11 Sep, 2024 - 06:13PM
Erm OP, where are you finding these women? I’m sure the majority on here are not looking for that all!!
For me GSOH and a decent human being nail it for me, yes they’ve got to be attractive to me but I couldn’t disagree with that statement
1698750 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 03:33PM
So the one affair I have had was based on messaging for over six months without a picture until our circumstances changed. By that time I had formed an emotional attachment (not love) mainly we just became really good friends. Yes you did have to have some qualities that your partner likes but I am not Tom Cruise so please accept me for being me. Isn’t that what most women want to be desired for the person they are not what someone wants them to be?
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1694122 - 11 Sep, 2024 - 11:23AM
Nothing wrong with a woman wanting tdh..unfortunately I'm th but bald..lol..just an age thing I suppose.. but women can afford to be more choosy in this line of dating
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