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Real name vs alias

In the interest of being discreet, I generally do not give out my real name until I really know my IE partner. It's not that I'm hiding anything, but I've been burnt before so like to play it safe.

How do others feel about aliases and should we be disclosing our real names before we have sex?

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leggysheila - 19 Dec, 2024 - 08:36AM

Mines Leggysheila xxx

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Clickable Connection - 19 Dec, 2024 - 07:49AM

Chris196929 - 18 Dec, 2024 - 07:40PM

What does everything mean? Post code, national insurance number? 🤷‍♂️😂


Doubleohseven - 18 Dec, 2024 - 07:57PM

007 on 1st date, James on following ones. I like to plqy it safe too


1725148 - 18 Dec, 2024 - 07:48PM

First names, not a problem for me, surnames, don’t need to know. More a fan of nicknames anyway, tbh.


Chris196929 - 18 Dec, 2024 - 07:40PM

If I found someone who was interested in progressing to sex I would definitely be honest with everything at that stage of the connection.


Friendforfun - 17 Dec, 2024 - 10:21PM

Once you build up a relationship through messaging on here and you are convinced you are chatting to someone genuine. You will know when the time is right to disclose your name. If you have doubts then don't give it out. First names only of course.


1494077 - 17 Dec, 2024 - 08:42PM

Whatever name you decide on, please just stick to it. I once met with a man who gave me multiple names. It was most confusing!

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Paula99 - 17 Dec, 2024 - 06:07PM

I don’t think it’s names we should be worried about in here ..I don’t have Facebook …Instagram ..Twitter or any of those places where they get ‘influenced’ ..The issue is here most have face pictures and are ‘free’ to display plus they want to see your Pw because it’s the done thing….

By the way Paula is a pseudonym…ALL BASES COVERED


Tallandspicy - 17 Dec, 2024 - 05:34PM

In this day of internet scams, Facebook, Insta and all the like...it's very easy for a bit of a sleuth to find out your real identity.....I'm not thinking your potential IE, but your partner/wife/husband!
I would'nt give out my real name until I was 110% sure I could trust my IE....

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1725148 - 17 Dec, 2024 - 05:00PM

I’ve been thinking about this a lot.

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