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Clickable Connection - 13 Jan, 2025 - 12:20PM

Delicious Chaos - 12 Jan, 2025 - 06:46PM

I would tend to agree with this , too close to home and too risky on many levels. Red flag

Clickable Connection - 13 Jan, 2025 - 12:14PM

ad88xx - 13 Jan, 2025 - 10:16AM

Swingers club does seem like an odd place to meet - I'm definitely not against it at all, but for a first date I wonder if it sends the wrong signals ?? Each to their own , and what ever works for them 👍

Justme 73 - 13 Jan, 2025 - 11:37AM

Gatwick Dungeon

ad88xx - 13 Jan, 2025 - 10:16AM

I arranged a meeting once from here from what seemed a lovely lady, we arranged to meet in what I thought was a social club for a drink.

However it turned out to be a swingers club. For a first date, with someone whom I’d only been chatting for, for a day.

I went through with the meet for a drink, and asked why here, apparently it’s a common thing, you can meet in safety, have a drink and if it goes well, there’s places to go to take it further.

I made my excuses and left as it wasn’t for me, plus I was being chatting up by other couples as well, which was worse.

I definitely wouldn’t say no to a place like that, but certainly not first date material lol

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Delicious Chaos - 12 Jan, 2025 - 06:46PM

I’m sorry but anyone who thinks it’s totally acceptable to meet at the other persons house is a serious red flag for me. People don’t shit on your own doorstep, jeez!

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Here we go 693 - 11 Jan, 2025 - 03:04PM

Clickable Connection

You're right, it was a huge gamble, but it certainly paid off. Luckily I live in a very rural part of the world with very little traffic and neighbours.

I can see it would potentially be more risky for women, and as such I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else. Personal safety is paramount. We had been chatting for some weeks and we're both very keen to meet. She obviously thought it was worth the risk.

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Clickable Connection - 11 Jan, 2025 - 09:39AM

Here we go 693 - 10 Jan, 2025 - 08:48AM

Wow , your home ? That's a risk , I'd be willing not to take

Here we go 693 - 10 Jan, 2025 - 08:48AM

My last affair started this time last year. Ironically with the same weather we're experiencing now. It was making it almost impossible to arrange a first meeting. Eventually she came to my house one evening while my wife was out at yoga. The rest is history...

Sugarray747 - 06 Jan, 2025 - 11:52PM

I met a beautiful woman older than me by 8 years, at a close friends party. We had a speaker in the bedroom, pumping out tunes through an open window i to the garden. It got disconnected so i went up to try and fix it. I didn’t realise someone had followed me up to the bedroom.
We didn’t even say hello, we just kissed. What I didn’t know was her fiancé was partying downstairs. She came back the following night to sleep with me, and so started an affair for her with me. I felt pretty special as she would drive 3 hours each way just to sleep with me before going home!

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Lec2024 - 06 Jan, 2025 - 06:28PM

I’ve met in a pub or even straight round to someone’s house.

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