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Would Using Lube Make You Feel Inadequate?

Do you take lube on your hotel meets? When women get to a certain age, they sometimes need a bit of help in the lubrication department due to hormones and the menopause. Have you used lube? Do you expect lube? Would you, as a man, be offended if lube was used?

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LadyDe - 25 May, 2025 - 02:22PM

@justforfun

Spot on you’ve completely got the point… lube can be playful and fun 😈


Justforfun890 - 25 May, 2025 - 01:15PM

Some of the comments on here are unbelievable.

Bringing lube along with you is confident and sexy. Use it on him first. Smear some on your nipples. My point is lube is a fun addition to the bedroom - don’t think of it as a necessary evil, think of it as a bit of fun. If you’re really worried about it and you imagining passionate sex where you rip each others clothes off or have sex with your clothes on, then go and ‘powder your nose’ beforehand and apply some then, that way he’ll think you’re already really wet for him. Personally I think that’s a bad idea, it’s not honest and could become an issue when you meet again.

Anyway they’re my views as a 49 year old guy.


Fun_male - 25 May, 2025 - 01:07PM

Definitely wouldnt be offended. If we are doing a hotel meet the purpose is great sex. Whatever helps with that then use it


Delicious Chaos - 25 May, 2025 - 12:33PM

Spot on Dave 2025

Any guy who would recoil at the thought of lube clearly has no clue. Perhaps they should try taking something without lube and see how they get on.

Yes there are women who don’t need it and lucky them but if a woman needs it there’s generally a very good reason for it

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LadyDe - 25 May, 2025 - 10:55AM

@kisses the texture of velvet

🤣🤭😈

Thank you, well my army ranking is based on the same first letter … ie General (glass dildo) 🤣 it was clearly a Bridgerton thing in Covid 🤣🤣
Good luck with CBD oil some better than others

@Enigma
I agree they all need more imagination here 🤣😈


Enigma.. - 25 May, 2025 - 10:44AM

Lube!?!

And here was me thinking you lot were a little more imaginative than that 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣😉.


Dave 2025 - 25 May, 2025 - 10:24AM

Lube is essential for any couple as it makes it less painful and more enjoyable especially with the more mature and experienced the women is. So absolutely yes !!


MutualFun99 - 25 May, 2025 - 09:17AM

As a man, I would not be at all offended if lube was needed and used.


Kisses The Texture Of Velvet - 25 May, 2025 - 08:04AM

@LadyDe

😅😂🤣

I tried to Google your sex toy Tag Team of miltary rank and nobility with a view to shop but all I got was a news report:

"1 Aug 2018 — A sex toy has been attached to a British Army building as part of a prank"
🤣🤣🤣

And I agree, lube ISN'T about bodily needs is can just add to the fun, so a valuable addition to the sex bag! No judgement!

I'm also now searching for the CBD infused lube, thank you for the tip!

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MagicMouse321 - 25 May, 2025 - 12:56AM

Come on people. Lube is nothing but silly fun, no matter the context. Why not? The wetter the better.

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